I was just wondering something. This is for the women of the forum. Would you actually date a guy, dump him and be his friend, date someone else or a couple of guys, and then actually go back to the original guy with the knowledge that you wanted him rather than the other guys?

I would never date a guy who had so little self-esteem and would let me play those games.

Don't keep the torch going. Find a new love.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I would NEVER go back to an ex.

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"Time flies like an arrow -
Fruit flies like a banana"

M Y - N A U G H T Y - P I C T U R E S ! !

Like I have always said

EXES ARE EXES FOR A REASON!


Just because time has past and you have grown (hopefully) as a person there was something that was in that relationship that was not right. You may still have fond memories of them but that is where it should stay...in your memory. Anything else is just asking for trouble.

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DAMN, YOU ARE A SEXY ONE-skipthisone

I beleive in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I beleive in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Kevin Costner/Bull Duram

"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.

i have to admit, i don't think you are askig this question just because you're wondering. i can't believe it, but i think you are still trying to justify waiting around for this girl...diana?...to proclaim she loves you afetr all and she knows she did this before but this time for sure...maybekindasorta.

in a different thread you slapped yourself. do that again and this time make sure it sinks in all the way. run. run away. don't call. don't wait for her to call. don't do "wild shit" with her. don't do tame shit with her. don't. she does NOT make you "feel good about yourself". go back through your old posts. read them. she makes you feel like a loser.

relationships between people in love, even people who simply respect each other, ARE NOT like the one you have with this girl. it has nothing to do with exes or getting dumped or getting back together.

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Trees give peace to the souls of men * Nora Waln

The forest would be very quiet if no other birds sang than those who sing the best * Henry van Dyke

some fairly sordid tales, rambles, and anecdotes
Hypothetically Speaking * Something More * Cammy Interrupted * An Experimental Vacation * Masked * so..damn..hot * Thank You * My toy, his idea * no.19 Maple Lane * I Have A Surprise For You * Yesterday * In a Quiet Kitchen * help me decide * untitled prose * more untitled prose

*awaiting a reply from rzande1*

I realize there is another thread of this nature...but what do you have to say about the wise input in this thread thus far?

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~

Hell no once a relationship is over with me it's officially over, anddo not go back

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I dated a guy for 2 years, dumped him, was his friend, dated another couple of guys, and went back to the original guy. At the time of the break-up, I was convinced I was doing the right thing. Not long after, I realized how stupid I had been. As wonderful as the other couple of guys were, they had nothing on the man I truly loved.

Communication had been absent in my relationship with the original guy. It was my fault but it was his too. It was lethal to the relationship though : by being too scared of talking about the problems, I thought it was better just to leave. I quickly realized how cowardly I had been. I had lost the man I loved, but with time he and I were able to talk - and now I am with him, and I love him more than ever.

Understand that my situation is far from similar to yours. The difference here is that Lake makes me the happiest woman in the world, and Diana makes you miserable.

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Si à travers nos veines coule encore le sang...
Si dans les jeux d'enfants on entend encore l'accent...
Si nous sentons encore l'espoir de nos grands-parents...
Si dans les voiles du large souffle encore le vent...
Y'a jamais eu de Grand Dérangement.