It was a normal night at home. My wife had commandeered the computer so there was no pervin for me. I just sat in the living room reading. I had tried being flirtatious a few hours before with no success and it was approaching 11pm and since I had not been sleeping well decided to take a little Melatonin to get some sleep....and what happens..about 20 minutes later in walks my naked SO saying she is going to take a shower and wants to know if I would like to join her. So i get up and join her. It was just a nice pleasant shower, we washed each other, very little sexual contact. She says she wants to wash her hair and I get out.

I dry off and then go lie on my bed and...yep you guessed it...is now about 30 minutes in and the pills took over....Sleep took me, I have vague memories of being kissed goodnight......I try and try to get her to make a 1st move and then she does it a night I take a sleeping pilll........I am so ashamed....

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ah my sweet sexy friend... maybe you should ask her before taking it... "hun, do I stand a chance tonight? Otherwise, I am taking one of them Melatonin"...

Sorry Hun.. HUGS.

Asking defeats the purpose of unexpected sex.....but I shall

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Love...the slowest form of suicide.

Ouch! You are right..asking spoils it! But the good news is whatever you been doing is working so keep being flirty and sexy with her. Seems she took the bait

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Me? I would have asked her if I could wash her hair for her. Gets both her and me cranked everytime.

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If I came here to talk, I would have worn underwear.

I was wondering about why you left when she wanted to wash her hair myself. But then once I get everything wet that is the 1st thing I do. I wash my hair and then the rest of me. But then I guess everyone has there own ways of doing things.
I am so sorry you missed out on a little fun, but I am with Lilith, you must be doing something right keep it up and maybe next time will be playtime

You will have to see the previous thread on shower accidents why I am not allowed in the shower during hair washing.

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hummmmmmmmm

Poor Skip -

yeah... getting launched out of the shower and landing on my ass would be the highlight of my night... lol

Just as the others... keep doing what you are doing.. you may get another chance... ...

And, I would highly suggest not taking anything until you are absolutly sure that nothing will be happening.. (like maybe 5 minutes after the lights are turned off.. )

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Maybe if you keep her guessin' she will come back for more. I **always** enjoy the thrill of the chase!

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Prelude to a shower
Private party
Making dinner
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skip

Timing is everything skip! You said you had tried being flirtatious a few hours before......to no avail. And you said she was on the computer at the time (if I understand correctly)......so my point is....maybe she was researching something at the time that just couldn't be interrupted (though, lord knows a sexual interruption supercedes any puter research, in my book....but everyone has their own rules).........but as she neared the end of her research she might have reverted back to the moment you were cooing at her and got to thinking...."Hmmmmm.....he looks expecially tasty tonight......I'll get him to shower with me".

Ya see? You planted the seed earlier and expected it to grow within seconds......instead of waiting for it to germinate and sprout.......(forgive the garden analogy....but it works here!). Sometimes we get instant gratification and sometimes we wait for our prize.....and other times still........we don't even get a booby prize (pun intended)......but as said above........whatever you are doing seems to be working but you have to learn the timing factor! Keep planting those seeds babe!

As for the melatonin......You couldn't fight the ZZZZ's feeling? I'm pretty sure I could hold out on the sleep (if I took one) and then saw you coming towards me all nekked and shit! But.....that's just me....TeeHee!

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skip, been there, done that! Don't be ashamed...it happens. I agree that "asking" flat out ruins it but sometimes it would be nice to somehow "know" ahead of time.


rabbit

damn man you zigged when you should have zagged

Just keep trying

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