Ok, I need a little advice from all you kind folk.
MissX has hinted at a little bit os spanking of her ( gorgeous
Tush.
Now I'm more than happy to oblige, oh yeah ( god can she wiggle it just right)

But the fear of hurting her holds me back...

I mean, how hard? how fast?etc

Can anyone offer some good advice in this particular area?
Share your experiences good and bad.....

P.s Its her birthday this Sunday, so Everyone PM her on Sunday

Thanks oh wise ones!

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Well....................I suggest before the spanking begins that you guys know some limits....I dunno how high of a pain tolerance that Mrs. X has, but just gradually get a little harder and just ease up when it gets to be too much. I'm sorry I don't have more advice, but I hope that helps a little.

*Clint

Birthday spankings!!!!! The perfect way to start!!!! I am not sure there is too hard....lol

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Whoo-Hoo!!! That's right. Her birthday is coming up and what a perfect way to oblige to her needs *LOL* @ Lilith

*Clint

Hummmmm, wish I could help you, ,but I have been kind of hinting about this to my s/o myself. So any ideas would be nice...

Hmm..just let her know that she needs to check this tread on her birthday....lol

http://www.sultry-leather.com/bdsm.html
ONE of the many sites that a search of BDSM and INFO would come up with. Make sure you read some stuff before u start spanking, start LIGHT and build up, and spank relative to her excitement.

Also, agree on a safeword so you could do some roleplaying, (policeman-thief/criminal/whatever , teacher-student , uncle-niece, etc) and so that she can say NOOOO without you having to stop. [makes scene more 'real' and if it really is a problem, she uses the safeword].
You can use MORE 'safewords' one that means STOP! NOW!, one for NOT THAT HARD!, one for GIVE ME ALL YOU'VE GOT!, etc. just make sure you remember them....

DO check out different types of spanking 'devices' beforehand and their effect (both phisycal and pain-intensive), and CHANGE them.

Also some ICE or HOT WAX in between is a nice addition (or some really smooooth soft tissue (silk or something) to caress her senstive bottom between changes of devices)..

ALSO, see if the ass is the ONLY place she likes spanked. Light spanking can also be applied on inner thighs and breasts].

and DO tell what happend, please ..

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excellent, Thanks for all the advice, will check it out
Any more experiences, please post away!!

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I posted this elsewhere in a spanking question. You might want to try this. Fantastic doesn't come close to describing the effect if it work for you. The GSpot info is found under "The TECHNIQUE" on this board. Good luck.

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For anybody who has tried the GSpot technique and found that it works AND likes a spanking now and then - COMBINE the TWO.

A good OTK and every 10 swats or so give her two to five rapid G-Gasms and then 10 swats. Alternate that back and forth. Keep it rapid and frenzied, pull her hair, lock only one leg down so she can kick the other around, keep one arm firmly over the small of her back so she feels (and IS ) trapped and can't get away. MAKE her submit just a little longer than she wants to. She'll be screaming and begging you to stop. Don't. Part of the thrill for her is NOT knowing if you'll just keep going until she goes completely nutz or passes out from the intensity. I don't think most women can continue this for more than two or three minutes once they start having G-Gasms. It is just too intense. The spanking combines the kinkiness and submission AND the GSpot orgasms can be administered almost like spanks..."WHAT did you call me? OK - That's TEN more!!" It is awesome.

Afterwards reward her with a COLD cold cream bum rub. Aloe Vera based
body lotions are great. Put it in the fridge for a while first. When you start spreading the COLD cream over her red cheeks she'll melt. Keep her in that position and spread her thighs apart. Suck her clit (try not to drown) to a nice soft orgasm while she's still face down and your hands are still rubbing the cold cream across her steaming cheeks. She'll more than melt. She'll buy you a car. About a week after you do that for the first time take her out to dinner. Just as the main course is arriving remind her of the Spankings & G-Gasms night and tell her she's gonna get it even "worse" as soon as you get her ass home. By the time you are ready to leave she'll probably be too wet to get up. You'll have to fake a clutzy move and spill a glass of water in her lap so people won't see she was soaked BEFORE you spilled the glass of water.

Enjoy.

Wow, I found an excellent technique to assist in the "how hard, how often" kinda situation. Rather ingenious it is too.
I fed MissX Some wine, soon enough she was demanding it
woo!

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and I'm sitting rather gingerly with a goofy grin on my face...mind the neighbours have been giving us some strange looks - think we should have closed the windows and perhaps used a gag on me before MrX started the tush rubbing!

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I wondered what all that moaning and yelping was about!!! Happy Birthday Miss X glad to know you were given proper birthday spankins!!!!!

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY MISS X

Hope you got a bang out of it

HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!

It sounds like you enjoyed you surprise,

Happy Birthday MissX! hehe...happy for you

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