Hi everyone, I just wanted to intruduce myself (and say goodbye, I won't be back). My name is Jeff, and I have a son named Joshua, and beautiful wife named Angela. You may know her as Naughtyangel, although I had never met Naughtyangel until last night. I stumble apon this site through the history on our computer. I discovered that my wife of five years has spent the last three or so years here with you. To me, I can't find thedifference between the flirting, picture sharing, private chat and webcams, and intimate sharing, with that of a physical adulterous relationship.
Now don't worry about us, we are far to in love to ever let you come between us, but there are still some things that have to be said. First of all, I'm the one she married, I'm the one working 65 hours a week to help support us, I'm the one helping around the house, helping raise our son, and putting in quality time to keep our relationship strong. I'm the one she choise to spend her life with! But there is a bit of a problem here on this site. You see, I'm the one her life should belong to, and mine is hers, but you guys here are getting a revy intimate part of my wife that you have no rights to. You are getting the benifits of a quality relationship without putting up the comitment needed for a real relationship. You have no rights to my wife's body, and since I found out that you have it, it's tearing me up. I thought the pics she gave me were for me...do you realize that the set of pics you got with the cherries, I only got yesterday. Do you see my problem here? What will it take for you guys to see that there are real people involved in this stuff? What if your spouse found out that you are having an online affair? But like I said, don't worry about us, not even 24 hours after I found out, we are back on the road to a lifelong relationship commited only to each other.
Her pictures are getting an average of 500 downloads each. I know she's hot, but you have no rights to her. To those of you who have been with her either through our pictures, are flirting on the boards, or getting off on your webcam, there is something that has to be said. FUCK YOU, and stay away from my wife. Strong words coming from a man about the graduate Bible school and become a pastor, but do you have any idea what you are messing with? She is my life! I will not sit by and watch her being ravaged by complete strangers. Stay away from her!
We now have to work to repair her relationship with God, which was severed through her sins on this site. She never intended to go this far, but that how sin works. It takes you farther then you wanted to go, it keeps you longer then you wanted to stay, and it costs more then you wanted you pay. How many of you would honestly admit that that's how you feel about your sin here.
To the women here...you have to realize that you are far too special to be trowing yourselves around on the internet. Do you realize that you are part of the internet pornography? Do you really think these guys mean all the stuf they say? They will do whatever it takes to get your clothes off, they don't care about you! You need to know that there is forgiveness availible to you through Jesus Christ, you are not in so far that God can't help you and love you. He does love you, and He wants you back. These guys only want your body.
So before I say goodbye (and probably get banned from her, lol), I need to say it again. I love Angela more then life itself, we are getting through this. We will grow old together, then spend eternity together with God. Ang I love you, and you are forgiven. I'm glad all our secrets are in the open now. Love ya Darlin!

I must say tshindon...I'm sorry for your troubles hun, but WE (Pixies) did not kidnap your wife and MAKE her come here. I resent the implication!

That she has this "secret" from you is NOT our doing! I don't keep secrets from my husband and many, many other Pixies have spouses and S/O's who know of this site. This isn't an "all out clandestine deprevity"!

I don't know what else to say except I am sure you have some issues that need addressing...and to tell US off isn't where you should have begun!

Again...I am sorry about your troubles and I hope you see that what I am saying is that [we] don't/won't hold you respoonsible for your feelings in your spur of the moment rant!

Peace to you and yours!

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P.S

Might I add...she has mentioned you and your son (not by name) and the love she feels for you and him and her happiness with her life...etc!

I just thought you'd like to know that! We know she loves you!

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P.P.S. Judge not, lest ye be judged (can you tell I'm re-reading your post?)...

Your opinions of a sin and sinner are just that...YOURS! What if I were to tell you that I am an atheist? Now...what if I told you that your beliefs sucked! Yeah...it isn't what you believe and so you don't want to hear it...right? Well...I won't begrudge you your god...and you'd better stop judging me because I am on this site....or HE will judge you!

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I agree that you have directed your anger and disappointment in the wrong direction. You have come here to this site and judged many of us without knowing anything about our lives. I do much good in my career for other people that most of society shuns. My interest in this site is not of sinful intensions. My spouse knows of this site and of my posts on this site. We often read things together. I have never even posted a picture on Pixies. I have two reasons for this: 1) respect for my husband as he has stated that he would not want me to post pictures of myself and 2) protection of my career because of judgemental people such as yourself. I feel there is nothing wrong with being naked and sharing my body with those whom I choose. God brought us into this world naked and that is the way we will be taken out of this world. Clothes were invented by man and are that of shame. I have no shame. I have a strong belief in God and live my life according to that which is right. I will never step foot in a church for I have been in the path of others like you before. I pray for you. You have much growing to do.

Good luck and God's speed Naughty.

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I wish you both the best.

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I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Hello tshindon. I'm one of the "men on the internet that has ravaged your wife". I've also ravaged Iakaraokegirl, Steph, AZredhot,imaginewithme,and especially Lilith. Come to think of it, I've ravaged Aqua, pantyfanatic, Lilith and skipthisone. Ok...maybe coaster, musicman, jseal, curiousfem, catch22, sharni, lixychick, loulabelle & fussypucker, nikki1979, sugarsprinkles, irish and Lilith.

By ravaged...I'm sure you mean "met, learned about the life of, discovered musical interests of, foods they like and dislike, shared news of children's school accomplishments, personal and family emergencies, deaths and births, and yes...sometimes seen provocative pictures of."

I have a wife and three children of my own. I work hard (no laughing from those of you that know me too well) and love my wife. She pops in to Pixies once in awhile but doesn't post. Well, I don't think she does. Be on the lookout for smart posts from me...it might be her! Anyway, though I may say personal things, I always do so with respect. And yes...there is a difference.

I'm sorry that you are upset. I'm sorry that you feel hurt. I honestly think I would to, if I were in your shoes. But understand that while Pixies might be a site with sex, it's not a sex site. It's a forum with adult friends. Some members are like family to me. I'd venture to say that I'd do anything for most of them.

And that's not something I ever thought I'd say about meeting people online.

Of course it's hard to take a post like this seriously when it's attached to a picture like that! Oh well...it's who I am. ha ha

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Oh crap...I worked SO HARD on that response and then discovered that he said in his very first FUCKING sentence that he wouldn't be back!

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

<---- simply says "ditto" to WI's first post.

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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author

Jeff ask yourself one question: Why do you think Angela the individual who has the right to chose and happens to be married to you felt happy coming onto this BB and sharing herself with us.

We didn't drag her here, we didn't force her to join in any of the discussions, she chose as an adult to be here, just as you have the choice not to use this facilty.

I am sorry if your discovery of one of Angela's interests has caused you pain and I hope you can put it in your past.

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What is life?
If not an excuse for death,
and what is death,
if not an escape from life?

She came here of her own free will, and it's apparent to me that perhaps it was to fill a void in her life and relationship with you. Maybe that's why she didn't make it known to you. Sounds as though she was afraid you would judge her harshly for expessing her sexuality...and she was right. How dare you judge me or anyone else on this site! I can understand your feelings but it is obvious to me that you have not looked at a single post other than your wife's picture threads. You have not seen the warmth and depth of these boards. I pity your shallow view and your rush to judgement. I also resent your taking your religious stance to chastise the members of this forum on behalf of your insecurity. I suggest you talk with your wife...openly, honestly. And when you do so I suggest you realize that your wife is also a sensual, sexual creature. There is nothing wrong with that. It's natural and within God's grand design. Quit trying to control your wife, that is not your place. I'm not saying that she wasn't in the wrong for not being forthcoming with you, but judging by your response I can see why. You say you spend 65 hours a week at work, perhaps that's not the kind of support she needs. Perhaps she needs an attentive husband who will listen to her and openly appreciate her. Good luck to you both...and especially to you Angela. To you sir...well...forgive my repeating above sentiments, but judge not lest ye be judged.

even if he's not, maybe she will and will know that we are thinking of her and wish her the best

Oh and "ravaged your wife"??? Give me a fucking break! I've only "ravaged" one person on this site and we are very much in love and are partners in the truest sense. Appreciated your wife, yes....but not ravaged or took advantage of or anything else disrespectful.


(Yeah, I'm rereading it too Lixy) LOL

P.S. Doesn’t religion teach us to be tollerent of other peoples beliefs? Yet you are saying our belief to express our sexuality to be wrong and needing the forgivness of your god. You make me wonder if your god is the same god as the one I read about in the bible, or the one followed by those in the Talliban.

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What is life?
If not an excuse for death,
and what is death,
if not an escape from life?