Iam now single again after a big blow out argument ok first I have told my friends that we had a fight and just split up. Now the real truth is when we
Were fighting he hit me just a slap with the back of his hand the I was in shock he immediately said he was sorry to witch I responded that no it was my fault for getting him angry before you all yell at me the next second I realised
What the hell a was saying and told him to leave what scared me most was not him hitting me but my reaction I realised I could have ended up in a abusive relationship
i thought i was smater than this and this has scared the hell out of me

(((Axe)))
That is scary, but you did realize what you were saying and you told him to leave. Good for you. It is not uncommon to blurt out something you don't mean in a heated moment and it seems that is what happened. I am sorry to hear that your relationship is over... better over than being an abusive one though.

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((((((((HUGS)))))))))))) im so glad u found strength to get out NOW instead of staying !! U ROCK!!! i know breakups are hard but im really glad u didnt wait.

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If they hit you just one time they will do it again. It just gets worse. He needs to learn to control his anger. There is NO excuse! You did the right thing. Stay the hell away from him. He's trouble.

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(((Axe))) often times a responsible type person's gut reaction is that they fostered the situation. You recognized quickly that this was his problem and did not have to be yours. You made yourself clear. Violence will not be tolerated, period.

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