any lonely hearts out there?
my feionce went to jail 4months ago. and now im basicly a single mom now. my son is the best thing in my life.
my mans mom moved in to help, and it does. but its fcukin hard.
i knoe he'll be here for me when he gets out. but now i feel like theres no one i can lean on. i moved to be with him, so i only knoe a few ppl in this city.
i knoe that i have to tkae care of my son and i love to. seeing him smile everyday, i love it. i feel like ...... My son(10months) is the ONLY reason i get out of bed in the morning. is that the way it should be? im getting to the point that its not enough nemore. that makes me feel horrible too.
any suggestions? please dont say see a doctor. i have.

be nice. be mean. be honest.

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I'm Just A Sweet Transvestite From Transexual, Transalvania!

It sounds like a pretty normal reaction to the situation. You're displaced and left alone... surely there's more to life. I know when I was in a similar frame of mind I had to get away and busy myself with some creative effort. Maybe there's a group activity you could attend on occasion to meet a few friends? Trust me I know the love for a child is awesome but you also need some friends your age to mingle with. Just my lil offering... best wishes to you.

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Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery

native.baby,

You feel alone, but you are not. I have included links below to three support groups who know how you feel and can help you. “There is no worse feeling than that of being alone and helpless. This applies to the families of those who are incarcerated just as much as it does to those behind the walls.”

I hope one of these is right for you.

http://www.centerforce.org/families/support.cfm

http://dailystrength.org/support/Re...CFRGsGgod2R4B0Q

http://www.prisontalk.com/

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Eudaimonia

You are facing several circumstances that often leave people feeling isolated. When you stack one on top of the other I am sure the loneliness is overwhelming. I would suggest you find groups in your area who have things in common with you. Many churches have Mother's Day Out type programs that would offer you son a chance to be around other kids and you a chance to meet some other moms. Of course there are social groups etc. you could look into. I know its hard to just get out there and expose yourself but its the only way people will get the chance to know you.

Of course none of that helps at night when you feel the most alone. I understand those feelings. I was a millitary wife for some time. For those times, come here and find people to talk to, just like you did.

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Come visit Pixies, and find other online communities. Set up some play dates for your child - I mean, you'll enjoy them a lot and he will be learning. I know he's a little young, but it will be good for you both.

(((((native.baby)))))))

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thanks every1

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I'm Just A Sweet Transvestite From Transexual, Transalvania!

This is a really good forum, native.baby. Have you checked it out?

She put this at the end of her thread. So why is everyone questioning what I said?????





Now what is the point of having a public forum only to get shot down. Now I certainly don't need to have people tell me what I did or didn't say wasn't up to standard. I even recieved a pm in regards to this as well. Now the thread was started by native baby, it she has a problem with what I said she is more than welcome to pm me or say so here in the thread.

More and more people will stop posting on this site if this continues. What is the point of having a public forum if this is the kind of response that people are going to get?

Jude and myself and have a disagreement over this sort of thing in the past, I said my apologizes to him and that is that.

Native girl if indeed you have taken offence to what I said then I'll opologise in advance. Now can we stop picking on what I did or didn't say????

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She asked for advice concerning her life situation, not to be graded or judged on her spelling and/or grammar.

People are more likely to avoid posting for fear of being called out on the spelling/grammar then they are for being called out on off-topic, and needless, critique.

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Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
"The road goes ever on..." ~ Tolkien

In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

You bumped a 6 week old post and began by criticizing someone's spelling (who btw is not from the US). If someone has issues with poor spellers and they open a thread with obvious spelling errors and feels offended by the lack of clear spelling then I have not one drop of sympathy for them. If they act like an asshole about it, I have no mercy either.

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If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
<~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~>
One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

[QUOTE=Mark Vieth]Now what is the point of having a public forum only to get shot down. Now I certainly don't need to have people tell me what I did or didn't say wasn't up to standard. I even recieved a pm in regards to this as well. Now the thread was started by native baby, it she has a problem with what I said she is more than welcome to pm me or say so here in the thread. [QUOTE]





Mark you are wrong this is not a public forum member ship is required to post here making it a private forum. In fact it is a private moderated forum and if one of the moderators decided a post you have made is wrong and calls you on it. They are just doing their job. If you don't like this you are more then free not to post here any more.


P.S. Oh yea it's received not recieved don't you know it I before E except after C.

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it's not the orgasm but getting there thats fun

a shot in the bush is worth two in the hand

whip me, beat me, tie me up, break my arm, but please don't break my heart

"The trouble with the world is that the stupid people are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt" -Bertrand Russell

I deal with typos in my job and I'm now laughing at OPOLOGISE. That's a new one.

You suggest she use spell check. I would think opologise would show up in yours.

Pot

Kettle

Black

Oblivious

Opologise

If I act like an ahole and get called an ahole, I shouldn't be suprised or insulted and have no right to complain. Why is it that I understand that, and nobody else does?

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We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Jude30,

Such is the lot of those who are not politically correct.

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Because the true ahole doesn't understand that he's an ahole?

And you understand this because you're not really an ahole, you just play one at pixies...

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