This happens more often then not and has been going on for somewhere around three years. We've been married for almost 28 years. I'm 46 and she's 45. We have 4 daughters that are all grown up and out on their own now.
Anyway, when we have sex a lot of the time I spend a good amount of time fondling, rubbing, fingering, you get the picture. She will usually have several orgasms then we fuck, or make love if you like that better. Most of the time she cums before I do. Here's the part that has me wondering what the fuck is going on. Immediately after her orgasm she starts crying. I mean some serious tears, sobbing etc. No I don't have a small cock nor an abnormally large one either. When I ask her why she just tells me she's "very emotional and doesn't know why". Maybe I'm reading to much into it I honestly don't know, that's why I'm here asking all of you fine people for your opinion. Most of the time I get the feeling she's feeling guilty of something. Another thing that bothers me is that most of the time after she has her orgasm she just totally ignores my needs for the most part.
Is my wife fucking around on me? PLEASE HELP ME OUT WITH THIS

It sounds more pre-menopausal than guilt, but it could be anything.

Try talking to her when you don't have squishing body parts.

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Oldfart's suggestion sounds like a good idea. As you and your have been together almost 28 years, you can probably pick a good time to broach this delicate, but engaging subject.

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At 45 Oldfart's idea sound logical to me. I would doubt after such a long marriage (with many wishes that it continues for at least another 28) it's something as sinister as an affair.

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aalittle advice on womans side.. When i have an orgasm that is very powerful i will sob my eyes out.. its not anything against partner or anything its just realease to me.. it could be for her also

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I didn't think of that. Would that mean we should give him props for being that good?

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Orgasm is pretty much the biggest release a person can have...doesn't seem so far-fetched that it would be accompanied by an emotional release, especially if you're having sex with someone you love--emotions are part of it. I guess if you have other reasons to suspect she might be untrue, you should probably ask. But if this is your only "evidence," I'd back away from that suspicion, and do some hard thinking. If you're not trusting your partner at her word, and she's not a reciprocating lover, your relationship may already be in trouble without there having to be a third party involved. You might want to look to that.

Are you feeling guilty of something, and projecting?

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