12-05-2008, 11:36 PM
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Everybody Stretch!
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Miss You Guys Like Crazy!
Sis is NOT good!!!!!!!!
Having a hard time with bro-in-law. Of course he wants to hold on (biblical) but sis is suffering...in my opinion. I have no say that and I am frustrated!
She's in Johns Hopkins (again...6th time) and they have weaned her off of 80mg of Prednisone. She's had a grand moll seizure and they want to start chemo for some fucking reason. PLEASE LET HER ALONE!
She can't walk and she can't talk and she hasn't had thought of her own in 3 years. She's puffed up and looks really uncomfortable in her "new" skin. Bro-in-law keeps looking for a way out. I can't blame him but "I can see the forrest for the trees".
We spend so much time with a shell of a woman. I love her, but I know in my heart that she wouldn't want this for herself or anyone in our family. I can't override my bro-in-law's authority. I wish we could all hear her thoughts on this matter!
That's right...I'm saying I want my older (by two years) sister...my mentor...to die gracefully. I miss my sis. She's NOT here on this earth anymore. Just her body remains. And I see her every day. Or do I?
Hope you all understand why I've been away.
Thanks for understanding!
Prolly won't get back here inna while.
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12-06-2008, 12:49 AM
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Lixy we miss you too!!You and your family have our thoughts and prayers
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12-06-2008, 02:04 AM
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(((((Lixy))))) Take care hun and my thoughts are with you!
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12-06-2008, 02:30 AM
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Lixy,
You know you and your family are in Mrs. DB and my prayers all the time.
We sincerely want the very best for you and your family and pray that is what will be. Just feel our hugs when things are toughest and know that we're always here if you want anyone to talk to.
Love ya'
Mrs. DB and I
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12-06-2008, 06:28 AM
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LixyChick,
It must be difficult indeed. As you are in the area from time to time, let me know if there is anything I can do to help make things easier for you.
John
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12-06-2008, 06:36 AM
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Miss you too Lixy, I hope things get sorted soon.
(((((((((lixy))))))))
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12-23-2008, 02:11 AM
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((((Lixy))))) - I hope you and she find some peace soon!
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12-23-2008, 01:41 PM
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I miss seeing you on here, and am sooo sorry for what you and your family are going through. Just remember; all you can do is all you can do.
Keep your sanity and best wishes for a happier new year...
Joe
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12-06-2008, 06:20 PM
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Turn it up!
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Quote:
Originally Posted by LixyChick
Sis is NOT good!!!!!!!!
That's right...I'm saying I want my older (by two years) sister...my mentor...to die gracefully. I miss my sis. She's NOT here on this earth anymore. Just her body remains. And I see her every day. Or do I?
Hope you all understand why I've been away.
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Of course we all understand. I also understand how one can feel about a beloved family member who's here, but not really here. BTDT, gave the t-shirt to Goodwill. Just know that we're here for ya anytime you need us. And a scotzophrenic cyber-hug is as close as your 'puter.
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12-06-2008, 07:36 PM
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Not there yet.....
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I miss you too Lixy........ (((((((((you))))))))
We will pray for you and your family and that your BIL will see the light. We all want to be able to die with dignity, but it is hardest one the one that makes that final decision. All we can do is pray for guidance.
Come see us Lixy when you need support or just a good laugh!
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12-06-2008, 11:38 PM
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Missing the Angels
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(((((((((((Lixy))))))))))))
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12-07-2008, 06:30 PM
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Leo was right
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I'm so sorry Lixy. ((((((((((((((((Lixy))))))))))))))))))))
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12-07-2008, 11:17 PM
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You know how much we miss you and how much you've been on our minds these past two years. The only thing I can wish for you now is the serenity of being able to accept the thing you can not change. I am happy you have not been the one left with the final 'can't be right time/can't be wrong time' decision when that moment comes.
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01-04-2009, 08:07 AM
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(((((((Lixy)))))) I hope everything turns out as well as possible for you, your sis and your family.
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