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I always wanted to be somebody, but now I realize I should have been more specific. --Lily Tomlin

What the Smiths do or don't do is up to them. If Will has a wife who is not averse to him playing around (with presumed reciprocity) then good on him. It's none of our business. The continual pressure of the (probably imaginary) moral majority for people to be socio-sexually conformist is just sad.

Thanks for the heads-up, gigi.

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I agree about the none of our beeswax thing. I really put it up there about the polyamorus bit. I was curious what people thought. That's all.

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I always wanted to be somebody, but now I realize I should have been more specific. --Lily Tomlin

We have some here who have dipped their toes in this quagmire.

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I say to each their own... and good luck to you! I have no feelings really on the choice of lifestyle, I understand it and accept those that embark on a life into it..... just know that it's not for me.

It's interesting being around both my current wife and the ex in a regular basis. They get on well together because there's no competition, their roles are fixed. Throw in the dynamics of a closer relationship and it would be difficultly impossible (not to put too light a slant on this).

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