I didn't know where else to post this. This is where I hang out the most.

Hubby and I have been have problems for quite some time. He thinks everything is fine, everything that's wrong in our marriage is somehow my
fault. So I've decided to ask him for a divorce. He'll be getting a letter from my lawyer over this week-end.

I'm not feeling very sexy lately. Reading through my old posts and private messages has helped me to feel a little better in that regard. (We haven't had sex in 6 months)

Thanks you for all you kind, encouraging comments. I didn't realize how valuable I would find them until now. I'll still be around, maybe not for a while though.

I will let you know how it goes this week-end. My 15 yr. knows, my 11yr. old doesn't, I'm going to tell him tomorrow, before the letter arrives.

Thank you again for being there for me.

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