I've been married for 5 yrs (together 9 yrs and second marriage for both). We have a great sex life, but I love getting on the internet and doing the cyber thing. I feel like I;m cheating but then again I love to masterbate and talk and read dirty things. I have not done the web cam yet but am thinking about it. He would join me in a heart beat but I really don't want him too, at least not yet. So do I go about doing what I want or should I not? HELP