I had a very eye opening talkwith my S/O the other day. We started talking about size, and men, and ended up talking about size and women.
He said that not only are women different sizes, but that we are different temperatures, and of course different moisture levels.
He said that the more turned on I get, the hotter I get. I never thought about it much, but it got me to thinking.

At least men can just get it hard, and measure their size.... We are stuck wondering for the most part, or taking someone else's word for it. I had never been self- concious about my size before that conversation.... now I wonder. I am sure that most of the women here know about Keigal(sp?) exersizes.... and I do them regularly... but still, I wonder.

Another thing, is that while I don't squirt, I do cum. Of course, this makes me VERY wet. I was self concious about that when I was younger, but relaxed about it as I got older. Men or woman haven't seemed to mind, but now the conversation has me thinking about it again. Do I get TOO wet after I have cum once or twice?

The whole temperature thing throws mw for a loop!! Don't even know where to begin!!

Just wanted to let the men know they aren't the only ones who worry sexually.
Anyone else want to add their two cents??

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good grief - i never knew about all this stuff either, I do my pelvic floor exercises when i remember as i have had kids but not as often as i should.

I think maybe we should listen to the advice that we give out to the guys, it really is'nt that important, and I'm sure that when we are cumming, it is the last thing on our minds

Maybe some of the guys would like to tell us if they notice or prefer anything in particular?

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*Wanda puts on her nurses uniform*
I have been doing Kegel exercises since I was 20.
While I was in nursing school I learned from a OBGYN resident that doing the exercises DURING sex can intensify my orgasm! Also my male partners like the sensation, they have told me. (I think this is the reason he first told me about them.)
And of course we are all diffenent sizes! When I started out in nursing, there where something like 12 different sizes and shapes of vaginal speculums, to match the different sizes of women's vaginas. ( remember the old cold metal ones?)
I have learned that we also vary a lot on how wet each of us get before, during, and after sex.
I haven't yet had a partner who actually "squirted ", but some have really soaked me and the bedclothes! LOL
And also, the more turned on we are, the more blood flows to the vagina, so it feels hotter


Medically

WW

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If 5 men volunteer to use their tongues as thermometers....I think I could donate my body to Science for some random sampling

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Here you have one thermometer already, Lilith!
Can we start science?

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Sadora, I too have often wondered this same thing. When me and hubby were first together, I would never let myself cum, because I didnt want him to think I was gross or weird because of how wet I get. Now I dont squirt either but if im getting really turned on I get wet enough to soak my undies Then if i cum 2 or more times then i get SOO wet. I used to think it was gross to get that wet but now I dont care for me thats showing a man how much we are into what we are doing, We all know how it feels to reach down and see how hot a man is by how hard he is, or to reach down and feel hot and wet a woman is. Its one of the hottest things to feel

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While I knew that women were different sizes, and that some are wetter than others, I never knew about the temperature thing. Thanks WW.

Sarriah- At least I'm not the only one!

Thanks for the responses guys!

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That was only supposed to be one okay... it seems totally different with two... sorry!

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well i think im weird cause i squirt on thefirst time i come. then im a happy victim of multiples so i get extremely wet. but superman says thats what he loves most about sex the warm wet feeling so i guess it is ok.

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I have to say, that I love more than anything, going down on my gal...I love how wet she gets, and how its so hot, and gets all over my face...And to to top it off, there's nothing like feeling that super slippery warmth around my cock as I slide insider her after she's come.....Girls, you should be proud of yourselves...

well im sorry girls but ive never noticed a difference......
maybe i just get too excited when im down there but i dont think ict would like it if i appeared with a ruler, some tissue and a hydrometer.

i just like to get stuck in...tongue,cock, finger i dont care if its like a river or a stream just as long as its there!!!!


Lilith.....can i take some samples?????

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Like Danziggy, I've never done the math.

I have as yet to meet a woman who gets too wet.

I don't know if such a thing exists.

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I, too, do my Kegels during sex. My men love when I clutch their cocks.

On the wet front, I get VERY wet. I have a good friend who has trouble with lubricating. I'd much rather get really, really wet than have to apply lube, my friends!

Wetter is better!! And if a girl can squirt... WAHOO!!

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