Live Chat

Go Back   Pixies Place Forums > Sex Talk > Advice
User Name
Password


Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Rate Thread Display Modes
  #136  
Old 02-23-2005, 11:12 PM
Mark Vieth's Avatar
Mark Vieth Mark Vieth is offline
Freeze!
 
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posts: 482
Send a message via MSN to Mark Vieth
Well Bibi that brings up an interesting question. That is why haven't any of the asians that frequent pixies made any comments? I know that I finished this thread with that big "thank you" to all posting, however prior to that, there was plenty of time and opportunity for them (asians) to come forward and put their views in. If they still want to, they can.
Reply With Quote
  #137  
Old 02-23-2005, 11:40 PM
BIBI's Avatar
BIBI BIBI is offline
Made in England
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Hamilton, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 8,180
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mark Vieth
Well Bibi that brings up an interesting question. That is why haven't any of the asians that frequent pixies made any comments? I know that I finished this thread with that big "thank you" to all posting, however prior to that, there was plenty of time and opportunity for them (asians) to come forward and put their views in. If they still want to, they can.


Well you would have to ask them why they didn't participate in your thread for I cannot answer the question for you.

As far as the thread being finished...LOL they are never finished as I am sure you noticed with all the old threads that have been bumped lately
Reply With Quote
  #138  
Old 02-24-2005, 02:21 AM
denny's Avatar
denny denny is offline
Stiff Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Thousand Oaks, CA
Posts: 11,064
I am slow coming to this post, no pun intended.

Sex comes as you both become comfortable and build the trust and desire that normally precede it. Give your relationship a chance to blossom without forcing sex as an issue.
Good luck.
__________________
Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours
Reply With Quote
  #139  
Old 02-24-2005, 03:08 AM
Mark Vieth's Avatar
Mark Vieth Mark Vieth is offline
Freeze!
 
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posts: 482
Send a message via MSN to Mark Vieth
Quote:
Originally Posted by denny
I am slow coming to this post, no pun intended.

Sex comes as you both become comfortable and build the trust and desire that normally precede it. Give your relationship a chance to blossom without forcing sex as an issue.
Good luck.


I certainly hope so.
Thank you Denny.
Reply With Quote
  #140  
Old 02-24-2005, 04:17 AM
Catch22's Avatar
Catch22 Catch22 is offline
Southern Belleified
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Brisbane, Australia
Posts: 2,316
Confucius say;
Many old threads, make dirty tapestry.
__________________
Half of a set :halo:
Reply With Quote
  #141  
Old 02-24-2005, 05:10 AM
Mark Vieth's Avatar
Mark Vieth Mark Vieth is offline
Freeze!
 
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posts: 482
Send a message via MSN to Mark Vieth
Quote:
Originally Posted by Catch22
Confucius say;
Many old threads, make dirty tapestry.


LMAO. Damn that's funny. :jump:
Reply With Quote
  #142  
Old 03-29-2005, 07:54 AM
Stinger's Avatar
Stinger Stinger is offline
Registered User
 
Join Date: May 2001
Location: SouthEast Michigan
Posts: 780
Send a message via ICQ to Stinger Send a message via AIM to Stinger Send a message via Yahoo to Stinger
Not sure where you stand on this, Mark.
I agree your first post wasn't very good, but I got the lagist of it.

My wife and I have been together for 16 years and we were each other's first. Her and I played around a month before our first time, but it was always up to her. She too had sexual hang ups because she felt sex was a bad thing and only for procreation. I would only go as far as she let me. Yes, it was frustration, but I cared for her and was willing to wait as long as she wanted. That would be my advise...talk to her about sex and what might be reservations. My wife wanted to know that I would be there after we went all the way (Still loving each other after 16 years), wanted to know that she wasn't going to get pregnant (I had to use two condoms or there wasn't anyway we would), wanted to know it wouldn't hurt (I popped her cherry with my thumb a week earlier accidently, but when we did, it didn't hurt at all.), wanted to know that I would be gentle. Reassure her, be patient, and understand that she may say yes multiple times, but after getting into it, she may get nervous and decide not to, so you need to be willing to take some cold showers and not get upset with her if she does. A woman is stimulated mentally so you need to start there first and not in her pants.
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes Rate This Thread
Rate This Thread:

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Forum Jump



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 02:15 PM.


Powered by: vBulletin Version 3.0.10
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.