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Old 01-30-2005, 07:20 PM
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Yep it must me anti-me day...............
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Old 01-30-2005, 07:20 PM
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Old 01-30-2005, 07:25 PM
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Hi all. I'm seeing this girl who is a virgin still. Now that isn't the issue. The issue is how do you get past that "block" that she has put up?

She has only ever had one b/f her entire life and so has very little experience in the matter's of sex. She hasn't even gotten herself off so as to experience an orgasm.

She has about 50 million reservations about every aspect of sex. She thinks that it is unhygenic to give oral, she thinks that it is dirty if a guy cums on her. That is just to name a couple.

So any help would be appreciated.

Some appear to feel a wee bit errr aggressive on this subject *L*

It may be the way the girl was raised that masterbation/sex is taboo or dirty

You need to talk to her....or ask her to discuss her fears with another woman maybe

Your sexual needs cum last mate...sorry bout that....But this girl needs to be given time to blossom before ya go pickin' at her bud so to speak

I spoke to you about this...you need to be patient...if ya cant be then ya need to let her go find someone who will
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Old 01-30-2005, 07:30 PM
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She didn't gift me anything. She wanted it pure and simple. She just came out with it "I want you to fuck me". Now does that sound romantic to you? I mean what the f... am I to do when she was all over me like a bad habbit and making it clear as day as to her intentions?

She even said herself "I want you to be the one that I fuck coz I just want to get it out of the way so I am no longer a virgin."

I asked her "why?"

She said "well I'm sick of all my friends telling me that they got laid on the weekend and such and such. They tell me how good it is. I'm here stuck with playing with myself and they're out there having fun with someone else."
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Old 01-30-2005, 07:36 PM
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Often time someone who has such an imflamatory attitude tends to bring out the worst in all of us, at least that's how it can be with me.

Mark, your attitude (as has been demonstrated so far) towards women sucks and when you mature some I think/hope you will see that it's not everyone's responsibility to sort you out. Until you learn to respect women, I would suggest you leave the less experienced women alone. Chances are they are going to do just as you have described and put up "blocks", refuse you and avoid you. They can feel the disrespect but don't know what to do about it so they run or hide. The women who have responded to you here also feel the disrespect but they are mature enough to know that they do not have to tolerate it and can just speak up and tell you why. As long as you continue to make the choices you have then you are going to continue to see similar results.
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Old 01-30-2005, 07:37 PM
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She didn't gift me anything. She wanted it pure and simple. She just came out with it "I want you to fuck me". Now does that sound romantic to you? I mean what the f... am I to do when she was all over me like a bad habbit and making it clear as day as to her intentions?

She even said herself "I want you to be the one that I fuck coz I just want to get it out of the way so I am no longer a virgin."

I asked her "why?"

She said "well I'm sick of all my friends telling me that they got laid on the weekend and such and such. They tell me how good it is. I'm here stuck with playing with myself and they're out there having fun with someone else."

And you made a choice to do it. You need to learn to accept responsibilty for your choices.
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Old 01-30-2005, 07:57 PM
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Do you not get it?

Women do not like it when a man refers to ANY woman as a mercy fuck!

It is not respectful.....it is demeaning and crass.

That is what has brought this thread to where it is.

That's it from me.....

I am off to smut!
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Old 01-30-2005, 08:08 PM
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Ok....i've just been speaking to this poor guy for like ages

He is not articulate, he is not a pig, his attitude to women does not suck (slurps a bit maybe *LOL*)...and i can tell ya he will not be the first, nor the last to word something badly

He's sorry for not giving more info ...but then we should not assume to try to fill in the gaps to what someones posted (guilty of it myself actually)

He is not doing this ALL for himself as some have indicated...infact his g/f has contacted me to discuss some things...he asked for advice and got cut down in flames...and he is very wary of trying again...as i'm sure are many lurkers *LOL*

We do tend to sorta pack here (not meaning its a bad thing) and it can be quite intimidating to break in to a place where many are very familiar with each other

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I understand that and can only go by what he has posted, of which I have read all. He has made choices about what he has posted and needs to be aware of how he comes across. We all have lapses in how we say something but I am not basing my opinion on 2 words in one post. I have read posts where he suggests violence as a way to solve problems. I have read posts where he reduces people to ethnicities and penis size. I have read others full of misinformation. I know it's hard to come into a new place but his first 5 posts were very opinionated advice posts, which does not usually denote someone trying to get aquainted. Despite that I continue to have hopes each time he posts that something will change. If he's an OK guy then that should be apparent somewhere. If his posts make him come across as a jerk then he needs to reconsider the content. We are all responsible adults.
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Old 01-30-2005, 08:23 PM
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I also realize that I make choices too and I think it just best for me to chill and not respond or attempt to try to make sense of threads that make me uncomfortable.
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Old 01-30-2005, 08:26 PM
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I understand that Lil....but to judge a whole person by 5 opinionated posts is a bit out there....i mean fuck i'm opionionated too *LOL*...the difference is i've been here long enough to have no qualms about standing up to any or all of ya.....a newbie has no hope

I know he aint perfect..but he aint no ogre some are makng him out to be either
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Old 01-30-2005, 08:34 PM
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If he doesn't really feel or hold the opinions as he has put forth into words,it is not our fault for taking what he has said at face value.

He surely hasn't been flamed by any standards that I have seen on other boards.
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Old 01-30-2005, 08:36 PM
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But this is Pixies and believe me....up there ^^^ was harsh *LOL*
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Old 01-30-2005, 08:37 PM
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I came in here to ask for advice on how to her get adjusted to the concept. So when it comes time for it, then she is prepared.


I don't think that anyone can fully prepare someone for that stuff like that. The most you can do is to continue to answer her questions if she asks. And if she wants advice on it, then be receptive to that. In the end, the decision is up to her so there's nothing much else you can (or IMO, should) do.
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Old 01-30-2005, 08:42 PM
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I understand that Lil....but to judge a whole person by 5 opinionated posts is a bit out there....i mean fuck i'm opionionated too *LOL*...the difference is i've been here long enough to have no qualms about standing up to any or all of ya.....a newbie has no hope

I know he aint perfect..but he aint no ogre some are makng him out to be either


You know what Sharni when I was a newbie as you say I almost left due to my opinion in a thread being jumped all over by you.........I felt centered out and embarassed. In fact I was quite upset.......three years later I am still here.
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