Steph you're welcome to hijack anything of mine anytime. ;-)

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery

[Mae West]Well BigBear, why don't you come up and see me sometime? [/Mae West]

I'd love to Hon, if I get back up that way I'll be sure and let you know. It'd be a treat to meet You.

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery

I love to touch him and to be touched by him. If it leads to sex, that's great! But it fills an emotional void to simply touch and be touched just because we love each other, with no expectations other than simply being close and staying connected in that way.

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact that I'm worse than I seem.
~A. DiFranco~

This is just a perfect description...now to find someone to touch is the next hurdle

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I like the bed I'm sleeping in, just like me it's broken in; it's not old -- just older.
Like a favorite pair of torn blue jeans, this skin I'm in it's alright with me; it's not old -- just older.....Bon Jovi

sooo sweet

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~Tainted Love~

A sociology prof told us about adopting babies from other countries. He and his wife found that the orphanages in eastern European countries were very understaffed. This meant that the babies didn’t get very much human touching. From what he knew about how we function he knew that babies that didn’t get touch during their infancy didn’t grow up to be well-adjusted. They opted to adopt from China where the babies get closer attention.

Being touched is a basic need. Not having someone to exchange touch with is one of the hard parts of being unattached.

Savoring those little finger-tip contacts is precious. When I think back on relationships I try to keep the memories of touches that were shared. No matter how the relationship developed there were always some nice touches.


Tom

The wife and I have been married 30 + yrs and the touchy feely is a big part of our daily lives. Watching tv or just relaxing in bed before going to sleep,stroking her hair,caressing her back or the curve of her hip,caressing her cheek and the look in her eyes holding each other till we fall asleep. It does"nt get any better than that unless it leads to a little more.When we are seperated for any length of time that touch or feel is what is missed the most.

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The mind never forgets what the hands have learned

"MELT"

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I like the bed I'm sleeping in, just like me it's broken in; it's not old -- just older.
Like a favorite pair of torn blue jeans, this skin I'm in it's alright with me; it's not old -- just older.....Bon Jovi

We hold hands at church; we touch whenever we're close enough. Probably most of the time these touches are not really sexual, just loving.

I love how my wife feels and so touching her tenderly seems like such a natural thing to do. Even what might be called "sexual touching" like on the breast or bottom, doesn't always mean "bedrooms." Only a touch of intimacy shared.

I touch everyone....I am a very huggy/touchy person....at least, I am if I like you.

So....no surprise to know that Mr Osuche and I cuddle a lot...on weekends we have regular cuddle sessions. Sometimes we sleep, other times we talk....but mostly we just cuddle.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

That is the one thing that I miss not having a SO.

I used to lay on his lap laying in between his legs and could sleep there just knowing he was there. He would be brushing my hair with his hands and he would be watching TV. I have never felt so relaxed.

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DAMN, YOU ARE A SEXY ONE-skipthisone

I beleive in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I beleive in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Kevin Costner/Bull Duram

"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.

i'm the toucjy feely type. but my hubby is not. i would like to just sit around for hours and touch and be touched. but hubby doesnt "do" the touch "thing." Me i touch him as much as i can get away with especially when he is asleep. i have to play with his hair at least a little bit. and i get a lot of hugs in whenever i can.

*Sigh* wish i could get some feels copped on me. LOL

**bump**

I'm a big cuddler. Always have been. Half the time I don't care if Bama and I have sex. So long as I get to hold her while she's with me I'm fine. So far the only thing I'm not fond of is while I'm driving and it's really hot, she wraps her arm in mine and is holding my wrist. It makes that one section of arm get really sweaty and uncomfortable. Then apologizes which makes me feel bad because now she feels like she didn't something wrong, but that's another problem. Other than that. I like holding hands and having my arm around her waist. Makes me feel fuzzy inside.

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"BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Will he offer me his mouth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his teeth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his jaws? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Again, will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes! GIRL: Yes. BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Yes. BOY: I bet you say that to all the boys!" -Meatloaf