Yah, what ^^^ said...that's why I don't comment... leave no evidence

I rarely look at the pic section... don't get me wrong... Pics are great... tho I will rarely look unless someone has be intrigued otherwise... I prefer those of men that I know (or have gotten to know here)... I have never been one who is overly stimulated by visuals... on the other hand... talk to me... whisper things... paint me a picture with your words... and you have me... absolutely...

another words... stimulate my mind....

Try coming up with the ratio of women views to women's comments divided by the ratio of men viewsto men's comments. That will give you enough information to create an absolute. After coming to a ratio of women/men views/comments you can....ow....

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I think it's fair to say that in general, men are more 'visual' than women, while women are more interested in the erotic stories, the flirtatious chat and the serious discussion here at Pixies but there are other things to take into consideration. For me personally, I get far more of an idea of whether I'm attracted to a man from chatting in the general forums that looking at umpteen pictures of his member.

For example, women who post pictures here tend to be far more imaginative than the men. There are men (Fussy, Aqua and Glyndwr spring to mind immediately, but I know there are others) who demonstrate imagination and creativity in their posts but a lot of the men simply post pictures of their cocks. There's no build up to it, we don't get to see much of the rest of their bodies and there's often no story or sexy theme. I think we women tend to tease and draw the audience in more with our posts because we actually have to 'compete' more for the viewer's attention when we post pictures.

Finally, I know the reason that I personally don't tend to comment on men's pics is because in the past I've noticed that if I post to compliment a man whom I don't already consider a friend or acquaintance, they often take it as a come-on and I will then be propositioned in some way or other, something that I'm just not interested in.

I think most women would agree that it's not that we DON'T like to look at naked men, but perhaps a more accurate question would be, why do men like to look at naked women, since it's men who seem to be able to look and look and look without ever getting tired or bored.....pity that most can't say the same for making love to their own wives!!!!!!

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While I’m pretty far from a typical male, I can certainly explain why I like to look at women. Let me start by saying that most mainstream pornography doesn't do much for me anymore. I’m so tired of artificial-looking women who look like they’re clones of each other doing the same old thing over and over again. It’s been turned into a product, most women are in it for the money, and it’s aimed at the lowest common denominator. I think I outgrew mainstream porn at 17 or so. I own a few “classic” mainstream sex movies that are far above the rest, like “1001 Erotic Nights,” but I almost never buy porn anymore.

On the other hand, I really enjoy amateur porn, especially self-pics taken by women. This is how I found and joined Pixie’s over 3 years ago. I think it’s very sexy when a woman decides to share herself with the world, not for money, but because she enjoys it and wants to give pleasure to other people. It’s so hot because she knows that men would be jerking off to her pic, and is turned on by the idea. I like all kinds of pics, but especially pussy shots. Every pussy is different and unique and it’s always a new experience. More importantly, I get really turned on by imagining how the pic was taken: how a woman spreads her legs, parts her pussy lips, adjusts the settings on her camera, and takes pics for the men to masturbate to. It’s kinky, and it’s also a rush because normally women would never share their most private parts with strange men. I always feel privileged to be a part of it and appreciate the hell out of the women who are willing to do it

I guess the point I’m trying to make is that it’s not like a male’s visual system is directly connected to his dick, bypassing all higher brain functions. At least in my case, there is usually quite a bit of psychology and imagination involved. Even for men who look at mainstream porn, I suspect that a big part of the excitement is seeing women who act so differently from the ones they know in everyday life.


Sex stories are great, and I used to be really into them for a while, but they’re make-believe. It’s far more exciting to look at real women taking real pictures of themselves. It’s a turn-on when a woman writes candidly about her real sexual experiences, though. And flirting is great, but only if it leads somewhere… there has to be a possibility of sex involved. Flirting for its own sake seems somewhat pointless.


Please forgive many of us men for only posting pictures of our cocks. It’s just that the single biggest turn-on for most men is seeing female genetalia, and we assume it works the same way for women as well. It’s merely a case of tragic misunderstanding For us to improve, though, we need constructive comments, something that’s too often lacking in the “Pictures of Men” section.


I agree that getting to know someone adds to the turn-on of seeing them naked. I often wish that porn movies had more of a plot that would allow the viewer to get to know and care about the characters before the sex starts. That said, there are certain types of women that turn me on instantly, even if I don’t know them at all. My pet theory (which might be pseudoscientific nonsense) is that my brain subconsciously recognizes that a woman is a good genetic match for me, which leads to an immediate sexual response.

P.S. Here's a link to my pics; I always appreciate comments.

I really do like the pics and appreciate the men that post. It's just that I'm such a smut game slut I forget to go down there and look most the time.

I agree that men are much more visual too. I might go and look at 3 or 4 threads and then move on, while hubby will spend a good hour or two looking at pics.

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Mrs. WI doesn't like looking at pictures of men. It doesn't do anything for her at all. Pictures of me or anyone else, known or unknown. She much prefers stories or videos of sexy situations, not necessarily pornographic. I guess that's what helps nurture the thoughts that I have that "all I have is a pecker, and who wants to look at that?" which leads to trying to be more creative with my picture threads. Not being very bright and creative...I usually end up falling back on my natural talent. My talent of being a goofball. ha ha Hey, at least I can make you laugh.

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It's been said several times already ... in general, men are more visual and in many cases almost need the visual stimulation as a part of the sexual process .... women (again, in general) tend to need more connection (in a variety of ways) .... for me ... I hardly ever go into the men's pics forums ... unless I'm friends with the guy posting or feel some kind of connection to the guy ... well, it just doesn't really do much for me ...

but I think Pixies is no different than the real world in this ... how many men's magazines can you name that show pictures of nude women .... in fact the market is good enough that there are a fair number of successful men's magazines that specialize in a particular approach or fetish ... on the other hand, how many magazines are out there that show pictures of nude men ... and even those are likely to have at least a significant portion of their subscribers who may not be female.

men and women ... we are different inside and out (in general)!

..... and "it's a good thing" :lust:

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They don't normally do anything for me unless it's someone I have really strong feelings for. Then I could look at them all day ^-^

yep!

I have to agree that I am not generally turned on by pics of naked men, especially if it's just their member. I need context, I need a face! I am glad I am not the only woman out there who feels the same way. And, I must say I prefer looking at the ladies, though I don't swing that way. They are just more soft and smooth and pretty. Men, just more utilitarian.

And to respond to agaethwe:

"And flirting is great, but only if it leads somewhere… there has to be a possibility of sex involved. Flirting for its own sake seems somewhat pointless. "

I find that flirting is *more* fun if you know it's not going anywhere. That way you can keep it up indefinitely without it having to end once you've "consummated" the relationship. I've had several male friendships that involved a certain amount of flirtation that we both knew would not lead to anything. It added a zing to the friendship that you just don't get with women (at least I thought so).

Alba, I think you're so right, especially about the flirtation thing. One of the reasons Fussy and I have such a great relationship, is because we are both big flirts but also have absolute trust that the flirting won't lead anywhere.

It's a good confidence/ ego boost, it makes you and the person you flirt with feel good.

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^^^Yep *LOL*

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Add my vote to the list with a caveat: I enjoy the esthetics of the member. Is he cut? What's the head like? etc.