I'm not telling.

I think the point that people were trying to make is that, in this day and age, no-one has the right to judge someone based on the number of sexual partners they've had.

Ever hear the expression, 'when your in a hole, stop digging?'

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"Time flies like an arrow -
Fruit flies like a banana"

M Y - N A U G H T Y - P I C T U R E S ! !

I have had enough to know what I like and dont like and how to get it.

But that is all I am saying....to much to think when it comes to numbers.

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DAMN, YOU ARE A SEXY ONE-skipthisone

I beleive in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I beleive in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Kevin Costner/Bull Duram

"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.

Judge?

No-one has the right to judge me on anything, much less my sexuality and what I do with it.

You can have an opinion, but judging implies moral superiority, and I admit that superiority

only to my god.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

Yes,7.

Ok I just have to do this to see if I can...

1. Scott
2. Bill
3. Bruce
4. Chris S.
5. Chris C.
6. Chris M.
7. John
8. Jon
9. Jeff
10.Geoff
11.Ty
12.Dan
13.Ray
14.Shaun
15......oh fuck what was the cops name....shit...

Dammit, I was so close....ANYWAY!!! Now accepting applications for 16-20...Apply Within.

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Can to be # 8?

2.

And im now engaged to my first.

Yes to the names, and the number is 17 (fifteen men, two women...four were very long-term relationships, the last being a permanent one). Ironically, if different choices had been made and situations altered, #17 would've been #1, and maybe the only one on the list.

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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author

Very Very nicely said Miss Girl. You have my respect.

Shit i forgot the women....

16. Amanda
17. Melissa

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One man and he's now my husband.....

oh crap, what's his name again.... oh oh, "my baby's daddy"


(hi steph)

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~Tainted Love~

4. Of course I know all their names.

Oh my...
Three years later. I feel a bit more mellow about this question now, feel less like I am being judged.
A good thing, since I may be the biggest slut in Pixies.
I have no idea how many men I have fucked.
Following the rules strictly and ignoring all the fingerings, hand jobs, blow jobs, titty fucking (not that many, men don't like fucking little titties that much) etc, and including only the men I have actually had sexual intercousres with, (including anal)...
More than 140, less than 160... I think.
This number is no longer a big deal to me. Carry on and wail and pray and moralize all you like, I like, no I LOVE sex. And no I am NOT a sex addict. I do see, (or was seeing before I relocated) a psychiatrist, and I am NOT a nympho, sex addict, or lost child looking for comfort.
I am a grown, reasonably smart, sane woman who happens to have a certain relaxed attitude about my body, sex, and pleasure.
As I nurse and certified sex educator I am amply qualified to protect myself from disease.
(I would like to point out that the ONLY STD I have ever contracted was courtesy of a FUCKING RAT BASTARD (ex)HUBBY during the brief time in my life I was monogamous)
Variety is the spice of life.
I don't recall who said that, but it is so true for me.
Every person I have ever had intecourse with was diferent from every other one, different feel, scent, taste, responses, even body warmth. They each felt different, even the smell and feel of their breath on my skin. There were also different attitudes, techniques, and skills. They each in their own, sometimes very subtle way, made me feel different.
And before anyone asks, yes, many of these encounters were in group settings, such as a gangbang, and a couple of BDSM scenes that I loved.
These events were ONLY about pleasure.
Number of women?
Please...
I have no idea or desire to count. I have been with too many women to count, and more were in short term relationships than with men, but so what?
Women offer me more than just sex, (usually, but see group sex note above) but also offer a sort of sexual understanding that I find only in other women.
Besides,the rules said only intercourse, right?
That would mean only the women with whom strap-ons were used, giving or receiving, (that was smore than you might think, so PTHHHHHHHTTTTTTTTTTTPPP!!!!! to earthling 2) andI didn't even try to count those particular partners.
I started to answer this thinking maybe I had matured some in the last 3 years.
I still dont know.


WW

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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho

Wish I lived in Houston so I could be added to your list!