Okay... I need some advice here folks... and I know that this is the place to get the best... so here goes...

This month marks 10 years of solitude... and at 37... I don't want to be alone forever... I have often played with the internet dating options in the past but have had no success at it...

I have recently filled out the eharmony questionnaire and have been considering paying for a months membership (69.00) to see if I can meet some interesting/interested guys...

So my main question is... have any of you given Eharmony a try? If so, did it work well for you? Is it worth the $69.00 a month?

Thanks..

My mom's best friend does internet dating, match maker things on line, etc. and has soooooo many dates! She's met people from all over and has even felt "love" a couple times. She's had a lot of fun and lots of great stories too

I'd do it!

Good luck to you and just have fun!

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~Tainted Love~

Jenna:

Check your PM Box. I got a 3 months for 1 coupon on email for eHarmony. Don't pay full price! If the code doesn't work for you, let me know and I will forward oyu the live email.

Hope this helps. I was fascinated by the profiling questions but I never actively paid for the service. However, I do believe that the compatability tests will cut down on search time.

Good luck

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Well, my uncle is getting married 7/14 to a gal he met off e-harmony. It was a long distance relationship (he's in Denver, she was in FL), and it was meant to be, I guess. I think they really do try to focus more on in depth personality questions to do better matching. Try it for just a bit and see what happens...cancelling is always an option. Good luck hun!

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Though dreams can be deceiving, like faces are to hearts; they serve for sweet relieving when fantasy and reality lie too far apart.-Fiona Apple

The commercial always sounded sincere to me...compared to some of the other sh...er...stuff you'd see in a commercial. I don't know anyone who's done it but you could check with the BBB to see if they've had any/many complaints. They seem like the type of company that would register with the BBB so it couldn't hurt to check um out!

I'd do my homework and then go ahead if I were in a similar situation as you sweety!

Good luck and please keep us informed!

*hugs*

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Ummm well Jenna if you wanna try something a little different the chts in MySpace are free and you'd be surprised at how many people you can meet there. Just a thought.... whatever you do I wish you the best because you are the best! Huggggggs Hon

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery

Thanks all for your input... I Think I am gonna give it a shot... Gonna go cook dinner... and then gonna do it!!

Wish me luck...

Good luck (((((Jenna)))))))!!!

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Put me on wheels and I'll turn tricks.

Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
"The road goes ever on..." ~ Tolkien

In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

good luck.....may the harmony be with you.

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Trees give peace to the souls of men * Nora Waln

The forest would be very quiet if no other birds sang than those who sing the best * Henry van Dyke

some fairly sordid tales, rambles, and anecdotes
Hypothetically Speaking * Something More * Cammy Interrupted * An Experimental Vacation * Masked * so..damn..hot * Thank You * My toy, his idea * no.19 Maple Lane * I Have A Surprise For You * Yesterday * In a Quiet Kitchen * help me decide * untitled prose * more untitled prose

Okay... done Have sent questions to some of my matches... a few are within acceptable distance... if nothing else this will surely help me identify what it is I am looking for... and in the process will hopefully learn more about myself...

osuche... thank you so much... the promotion code you gave me worked!! You saved me a mint... and after the 3 months it will only cost 29.95 per month... half of regular cost. I owe ya

I hope it works out for you. My best friend met the greatest guy on match.com. He really is great, and good for her. I hope you find the same thing!

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I see your fantasy... you want to make it a reality

Are you in the mood to be subdued

You see these shackles
Baby I’m your slave
I’ll let you whip me if I misbehave

Tie me to the bedpost

I like it rough
cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all

((((jenna)))))) I am so glad it worked!



Since everyone pays to subscribe, I bet you will get more focused interest from the guys...and better quality people to boot! I hope it pays off for you.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Okay... now what??????????? LOL.... I actually have several matches... 1 actually within 2 hours of me... and have reached the point (with him) that I am about to send him my first "open" communication.

What do I say?????

HELP HELP Help!! I would like to respond tonight sometime!!

Thanks!

You could send him a link you find amusing or maybe a link to a place of interest somewhere between you.

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a great idea Lilith... I will put that in my bag of tricks..