It's the one thing I can't ever seem to get into online. There are plenty of guys, but where are the girls?? I have almost every messenger service out there, ICQ, Yahoo Messenger, MSN Messenger, but no one is ever interested. Am I looking in the wrong places or what?

If any girls on here are interested, don't forget about poor old me!

we won't forget about you...you've been looking in the wrong places tho. there are females out there-including me-that like to cyber.

I love to cyber!!! But I think it is all in the approach...
When I am in yahoo messanger and a guy says "you want to cyber"? I know he is not the one. I like a guy to be suttle. We start talking about who we are, or where we are from. Then slowly go into the more personal questions, like what you look like. Then get to the are you alone question....maybe, what are you wearing kind of thing. Not just"do you want to cyber" then saying I want to fuck you in the ass. That just doesnt do it for me. I like it smooth..... Then I can totally get off and enjoy the whole thing. We are out there zylo! Dont give up!

I agree w/rollergrl. you don't just jump into it. you have to ease into it just like you just met someone. you want to know what they are about.

I agree with all three of you. I'm been im countless times by guys who are like" wanna cyber", or "hey are ya naked". I don't need to hear i'm fucking you up good. If a guy is smooth,then i love to cyber!!