*peeks in

Well hello there

Sooooooooo I've recently started having yummy sex with a wonderful man that I am hoping I can seduce into a less casual position in my life. He's hot as hell and I'm really so taken with him.

Now, I've had anal sex before - mostly as a spontaneous thing during lovemaking. But this guy... He has a serious butt kink. He likes to lick my asshole when he goes down on me... He likes to stick a finger in when he's fucking me. And while we haven't had anal sex yet, he is definitely looking forward to the day that we do.

And I'm shy about my butt

I mean, poop comes out of there!

(Ok I am seriously blushing now)

But seriously now. I do want to give him this. He is a fun and generous lover and he's been willing to experiment with things he's had less experience with for me, and I really want to please him. But I'm nervous about cleanliness. I'm nervous about his size too (his penis is gorgeously thick ) and oh did I mention that he has a couple of dydoe piercings? (Google them The piercings don't worry me so much; with a condom on, I barely feel them during vaginal sex.)

I know some of you regularly indulge in such deviant acts Help me set my mind at ease? Any and all advice is welcome!

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Si à travers nos veines coule encore le sang...
Si dans les jeux d'enfants on entend encore l'accent...
Si nous sentons encore l'espoir de nos grands-parents...
Si dans les voiles du large souffle encore le vent...
Y'a jamais eu de Grand Dérangement.

Neige,

I too have a "taste" for anal play, if you'll excuse the expression.

One way to address your concern about cleanliness is to let him enjoy you after a shared shower. I can only imagine what his size would be after a few wet, slippery minutes with you in a shower!

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Eudaimonia

Oooo good idea, jseal. We haven't had the pleasure of showering together yet... But somehow I don't think it should be too difficult to convince him to join me next time

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Si à travers nos veines coule encore le sang...
Si dans les jeux d'enfants on entend encore l'accent...
Si nous sentons encore l'espoir de nos grands-parents...
Si dans les voiles du large souffle encore le vent...
Y'a jamais eu de Grand Dérangement.

First, lube and toys.

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I have purchased some good condom-compatible lube.

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Si à travers nos veines coule encore le sang...
Si dans les jeux d'enfants on entend encore l'accent...
Si nous sentons encore l'espoir de nos grands-parents...
Si dans les voiles du large souffle encore le vent...
Y'a jamais eu de Grand Dérangement.

This is a job for Aquaman!!!!

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Si à travers nos veines coule encore le sang...
Si dans les jeux d'enfants on entend encore l'accent...
Si nous sentons encore l'espoir de nos grands-parents...
Si dans les voiles du large souffle encore le vent...
Y'a jamais eu de Grand Dérangement.

Let me try ...

AQUAMAN! PAGING AQUAMAN!

Hope that helps.

It has occurred to me that we definitely, absolutely and for sure need a reminder/update (or several) of said butt!!

I mean, it's only fair, right; we need to see what we're talking about before advice about can be relaibly offered!

DM

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The selfish, they're all standing in line
Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
I only own my mind

DM has a very good point, here.

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On the kinkometer, my kink measures as a sine wave.

Every one has a good point for her.

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Well I'm sure you all have good memories... My butt really hasn't changed that much

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Si à travers nos veines coule encore le sang...
Si dans les jeux d'enfants on entend encore l'accent...
Si nous sentons encore l'espoir de nos grands-parents...
Si dans les voiles du large souffle encore le vent...
Y'a jamais eu de Grand Dérangement.