Found this on a teen talk site....


Alternatives to full sex

Everyone knows that having sex can be great fun if you and your partner both feel ready to do it. But what if you don't feel ready? How can you have fun without having full sex?

If you don't want to have full sex, there are still plenty of things you and your partner can do to give each other pleasure, even an orgasm. And getting to know each other's bodies before you have sex can make it a better experience when you do.

Most of these alternatives to full sex are 'safe' - they do not allow the exchange of blood, semen or vaginal fluids. But remember, although oral sex is much safer than vaginal or anal sex, it is not completely safe. So, if you are giving oral sex to a guy, you can reduce the risk of catching a sexually transmitted infection (STI) by using a condom (male or female version). And if you are giving oral sex to a girl, placing a dental dam (a square of latex), or a cut up condom (male or female version), over her vagina will lessen any risk.

Alternatives to full sex:
Body kissing
Stroking / massaging
Fondling
Masturbation / mutual masturbation
Oral sex

Opinions?

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