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View Poll Results: Cheating is acceptable when?
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Your s/o consents
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5 |
13.89% |
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You don't get found out
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2.78% |
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It's only sex
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13.89% |
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Your s/o consents and nobody else gets hurt
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22.22% |
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You want to be found out
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It's never acceptable
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04-05-2002, 07:59 AM
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Wildland Fire Fighter
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So is cyber and posting pics here if the other half don't know cheating?
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04-05-2002, 09:11 AM
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Show me your tits
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Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: St.Louis,Mo.
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Actually if your so much against being unfaithful and so loyal to the bibles beliefs then you shouldn't even be at a forum of this nature and looking at such pics as these because it is actually considered to be a sin.
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04-05-2002, 10:40 AM
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Pixies Devilish Soul
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Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Alabama
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Kyttn: I feel that I'm not cheating on souls because I'm with another woman...
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I don't think it's cheating either. We talked about it. It's not like you're trying to put something over on me or playing games with. I'm happy you enjoy yourself. Like I said before each situation makes the question a little different. Time is more of a factor here. One kid feels the other kid gets more time than the other, etc. I'm a big kid when it comes to people I love.
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04-05-2002, 01:31 PM
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Alone Again
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Location: Ky
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Really?
Well, guess what.. I don't look at the pics on this site and my g/ f also happens to be a member of this forum.
We use Pixies as a place to get new ideas ( from the stories ) to try things and to post our opinions / experiences. i don't believe that is a sin.
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04-05-2002, 02:36 PM
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Member
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Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: Canada
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Quote:
Originally posted by Master1012
I decided to look up cheating in the dictionary to see what it had to say.
The part of the definiton of cheat that applies here is :
Cheat : [Slang] to be sexually unfaithful
I went on to look up unfaithful :
failing to observe the terms of a vow, promise, etc.
faithless and / or disloyal
guilty of adultery; adulterous
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The vow and promise. Marriage stipulates this in the vows but what about boy/girlfriends? The promise of monogomy must be stipulated and I think it rarely is or hasn't been for me. A lot of ppl assume fidelity. So when two ppl commit to each other they should communicate their expectations and if one can't abide by them and be faithful they shouldn't agree to them.
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04-05-2002, 02:44 PM
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Sweet Chastity;
Why is it that you are so interested in the subject of cheating. I hope you haven't done anything that you are feeling guility about.
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04-05-2002, 03:01 PM
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Oral Freak
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Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Quote:
Originally posted by Master1012
Really?
Well, guess what.. I don't look at the pics on this site and my g/ f also happens to be a member of this forum.
We use Pixies as a place to get new ideas ( from the stories ) to try things and to post our opinions / experiences. i don't believe that is a sin.
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Master1012 ---
I haven't had a chance to welcome you or your girlfriend to the site yet, so let me do that first before I go any farther. I'm glad to see you both jumping in on conversations and expressing your opinions, that's exactly what makes this place tick.
I must say, I'm really intrigued by your insistence that you don't view the pics here. I'm puzzled as to why you feel justified in getting erotic ideas from stories but not from pictures... Please please please understand that I'm not in any way attacking your beliefs, your morals, your faith, or your logic; I'm just curious!
IMHO: It seems to me that reading an erotic story and looking at an erotic image (be it a photograph or a drawing/painting) are prompted by much the same motivations --- in both cases the person engaged in the activity is seeking to indulge in some form of sexual fantasy. Words and images are, to my mind, sex toys --- as legitimate as vibrators and dildos and so on in terms of their ability to bring sexual stimulation. In this case they're stimulating the brain rather than the genitals, but the brain is very much a sex organ!
--- sweetstuff
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04-05-2002, 04:26 PM
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Alone Again
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Ok. Here's my logic - To look at a picture of another person that is erotic in nature is to somewhat lust after them.
Stories however can be turned by your brain to whatever you want them, For example, when I read a story I usually imagine my g/f and I in them instead of the characters. I don't know - I guess I am just one of those extremely faithful people...
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04-05-2002, 04:35 PM
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Junior Member
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: KY
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I think "cheating" is wrong too. If u cant tell ur partner something about something ur doin and you know they would dissaprove of this activity, its wrong. I dont think pics or stories or w/e are "bad" unless u get to where u expect ur partner to look/act like the ppl in the pics or stories. ( i.e "Why cant you look that skinny/pretty/big chested/big cock....)
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04-06-2002, 02:18 AM
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The Macquarie Dictionary defines
Cheat - 1. a fraud; swindle; deception
2. to deceive
Sex - 1. the character of being either male or female. persons of different sexes
2. the sum of the anatomical and physiological differences with reference to which the male are the female are distinguished.
3. the instinct or attraction drawing one sex towards the other, or it's manifistation in life and conduct.
4. men collectively or women collectively
5. Colloq. sexual intercourse
6. sexually stimulating or suggestive behaviour
So to me cheating is another word for deceiving your partner....and sex includes more than i thought after reading this definition..but includes Oral, Anal, Handjobs, Fondling etc..
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04-07-2002, 12:46 AM
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That's an interesting definition of sex from Macquarie. It suggests to me that merely being sexy (3) and dancing (6) are potential forms of cheating! Or is the Macquarie definition deficient in other ways? How would you define "sex"?
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