Okay...regarding the giving or getting of blowjobs. What style do you prefer. The woman takes the lead and the man just lays back and receives or the man being a little aggresive and fucking (gently) her mouth.

Bit of both really... I like to take the lead at first, but when I've got him really hot and bothered then I like it when he starts to play back (though if I feel like teasing I won't let him do anything but sit really, really still...)

I guess I sort of prefer her to take the lead but to be honest I've only really had one in my life that even got me close to an orgasm.

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Fussy is like that too Iowaman - I can find it a little disheartening as it makes me think my technique is no good. Unfortunately, it's rather difficult to ask any previous partners how many marks out of ten I'd get.

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i think its a little bit of both..If we are in 69 honestly i can't concentrate on him at all. argh.. i swallow so would rather get him off and then he laast longer. method to my madness

I enjoy both with her taking the lead. Then I want her to climb aboard so I can outlast her over the edge.....

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It depends om the women., if she is aggressive I'l lay back and let her go for it. If she is submissive I will fack fuck her. Both ways I want her to swallow the load.

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I'm just happy to be getting a blow job. She has said in the past she prefers it when I take charge. Of course this like most things could change with her mood.

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Not "practicing" but how I practice the art of oral sex.
For men, I prefer semi -public venues, doorways, corner booths in bars, or cars. I squat or kneel as I prefer for the circumstance, such as location or his height vs mine (sigh), and fellate him.
I love to look up and see the strain on his face, and the feel of control it gives me.

Recently I have added a particular "standard" technique, something I usually only did by request. When he starts to cum, I take him as deep as I can and suck, very very hard. I have learned to be better at deep throating recently, and this seems to give men intense pleasure.

(Unless he wants to paint my face or breasts, tastes vary. Was that a pun?)



WW

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I subscribe to the WW theory, cos it sounds best.

Seriously, there was one woman in my life who was THE headjob queen, the rest dabblers in the fellatial arts.

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I'm sure it's a personal thing though, OF. A Queen to you could be dreadful for someone else, no?

As I said before, I have little/no confidence in my own abilities anymore, although I like to think that I used to be good at it once upon a time.

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Either/Or is ok with me.

Clearly, there were issues to be dealt with for the other 23+ hours of the day.

Hold your head up, Lou, any man that knows will tell you there's no such thing as a bad BJ...some have a different response level, is all...I myself would like a little more response from my lady when I'm giving oral, but I have no doubt that she is enjoying the experience in her own way.

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I might add, depending on the moods of my partner & myself, either one or any combo of the 2 can be hot...

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