I recently found out that my wife used to date other women when she was younger. (It come out when she was very drunk after I caught her perving on women)
Has anyone else been in a homosexual relationship before?

.....My wife is now getting a little sick of me asking questions about these relationships....It is a guys fantasy come true!

Last year I was involved with another woman, but I dont think of myself being bisexual. Sometimes things just happen, at that time it just happened to be a woman.

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Just remember to say bisexual versus "testing/experimenting". My lesbian friend says she hates when people try to pull that stunt.

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"Bi-curious" is another bad term!! That one tends to get on my nerves a lot. Either you are you you're not bi! There is no "curious". That is a person who is simply unsure of who and what they are in life.

~Linds

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Lesbian here. I've been called "bi-sexual" because I've had sex with 2 men in my life. I like to say I was "experimenting"

Feel free to PM me with any questions. It's really not that interesting...4 boobs, 2 clits, 2 tongues...and whatever else we care to play around with.

Ophelia

I don't know Ophelia, sounds pretty interesting to me!

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To me when someone says that they are Bi-curious...it means that they are as yet to pyhsically be with someone of their own sex....but is interested in doing so..

When someone says that they are Bisexual...i assume that they have some experience with a member of the same sex

Sorry i disagree there....i am not at all confused...i know exactly who and what i am in life..

Sharniqua

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I agree with Sharniqua. I know I am new to this forum, and maybe I should pick my first few posting subjects better, but part of my social life is meeting women who describe themselves as "bi-curious", and I try to satisfy their curiosity. *smile*
Socially, I use the following definitions.

Lesbian: No interest in sex with a man whatsoever. This has its' own extremes, from women I have known who will not allow a toy to penatrate them, due to the "male" image it conjures up, to women who just prefer other women.

Bisexual: Will willingly, lovingly engage in sexual play with a man or a woman. This also has its' extremes. I have met women who are only bisexual when involved in a 3sum, usually with their husbands/boyfriends and another woman, and women like myself, who are confident in their sexuality, and just enjoy sex play with another person, woman or man. I enjoy sex with anyone who is smart, adventurous, nice, clean, considerate, polite, and likes to dance *LOL* (Though I have met women who describe themselves as bisexual because they got drunk with a college friend and brought each other off once 15 years ago... see "Experimenting/testing" below)

"Experimenting/testing" Ok I do have a little trouble with these women. They gave tried it, (maybe, sometimes this is limited to kissing and petting) and are unsure about their feelings, or the experience was not what they hoped/expected, or they had the wrong partner. And there are those creepy women who try it to be "IN" or "modern" Ewwwwwwww!! 'nuff said!

"bi-curious": Have had carnal thoughts, dreams, and fantasies about sex with another woman, but haven't yet tried it. (emphasize yet)
Society is cruel enough to women already, and a woman's sexuality is an easy target, so many women never act on these feelings. Some woman never take the chance...

OK. I will hide now, and not ever say anything again.

WW

Wanda, I think you did a very good job at categorizing the various stages of sexual preference. Everyone seems to have their own opinion of what these terms mean, but they are opinions. I think your categories fit very well, so you need not hide. I've had sexual contact with another guy quite a few years ago at the request of a girlfriend , (I wanted to see her with another girl so it was a turnabout kind of thing), and it was only because the other guy was a childhood friend that had "played around" with me as we discovered our sexuality. I couldn't see myself doing that with any other guy, or under any other circumstances, so I wouldn't consider myself bi. But some would say, "well you gave him a bj and put your cock in his ass, you must be bi." But if I take that title, there will be a bi-guy thinking I might be interested in him, which wouldn't happen. Anyway, let's just relax, and answer Timmy's question. I think it's mainly aimed at the women anyway, and I think I've said enough.

DON'T YOU DARE, WANDA!!! I for one am intrigued by your 1st posts, & wanna hear more from you! Do not be ashamed at jumping right in, that's what we're all about... keep up the good work!

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Maybe she'll come back and play?

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WANDA>>>> You make good points on all aspects af different types of sexuality.. Freedom of choice is one of our basic rights and no one should put down any one of other sexual preferences.Words are only words and some descpiptions are offencive to some and not to others. The way you wrote was a credit to you. PLEASE do not hide away...

First off Big Welcums to Playful Tigress and to Wicked Wanda. Personally I think that everyone categorizes people differently. But that is waht makes everyone unique and special in there own way. And I am sure that this won't turn into a big battle over what one person says or thinks. But please don't hide, and please continue to sahre your thoughts and opinions. After all, we don't judge you on something like this. We only get rid of the truly stupid or ignorant ones that offends everyone with their statements.

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