If you know you are going to have a sexual liaison do you get so excited and horny that you have to masturbate before? Or do you resist the overpowering urge and save the sexual tension for your victim...er I meant lover???

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Fridays are baaaaaad days for me, Lil. Most often, though, I save myself. Errrrr, well, you know.

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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author

***refuses to answer***
( but I do keep the battery companies very happy)

WW

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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho

On the few times that I'm not clueless that I'm going to get lucky...I resist the temptation to pleasure myself. It takes the edge off and I think it shows in my performance.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

I try so hard to resist the temptation to please myself, but sometimes it is just sooooo difficult. So - I just try to keep myself busy with other things and usually save it for my partner.

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Would you like more sex with that?

I wouldn't recommend sex, drugs or insanity for everyone, but they've always worked for me.

Men should masterbate before....they might last longer later!!!..LOL

I try to resist as much as I can...but if I spend a few hours here...well......then I can't!!!!

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*Diva*



"Never shall I forget the time I spent with you. Please
continue to be my friend, as you will always find me yours."
Ludwig van Beethoven (1770-1827)

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."

It really depends on the person I’m going to be with. We all want to make a good impression (so to speak ) the first time. As LoveDiva says, guys are going to last longer and get to “explore” your new companion further. After you’ve come to KNOW (in the biblical sense) one another I like to save it and give here the MOST I can for the beginning appetizer. :lust:

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I've gone out so seldom of late and had such poor luck when I do that....yes I get excited but hardly to the point I assume anything will develop unless there has almost been a spoken assurance.

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery

Depends on how long between the knowledge and the act! Hours alone beforehand.....I have to take the edge off. A wink at the end of a party......I might start in the car on the way home....but save the climax for when he doesn't have his hands full of steering wheel!

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~

It really depends. I prefer if he doesn't masturbate beforehand because if he does, he's going to last forever. Poor me, eh?

I always save it up. Yeah, I know I'm a man, but nothing keeps me from repeating!

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours

Before,during & after.There's always enough to go around.
Professional women,can tell.A friend,in the service,masturbated,
while waiting, for a "call girl",so that he would last longer.He figured,that way he would get his times worth.She knew.He told me,that she accused him of it.I guess they,deal with,so many people,that they know how long it should take.It's not sex to them,it's business! Irish

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)

I plead the 5th

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If someone offers a penny for your thoughts and you put your two cents in, what happens to the other penny??

Don’t let the hardship of the past, take away from the joy of the present

I like to masturbate before hand in the morning as it helps me to last longer later on as well as anticipate what is to cum!

I see a lot of "saving" up for the moment and a lot of comments for men lasting longer.

Is 30 minutes not long enough before loosing off the first volley? But if it counts for much if a man where to drink say 1 double shot of whiskey about 1/2 hour before hand, lasting longer isn't a problem to prolong 30 minutes to 45 minutes for the first volley.

Still I think a long bout of licking and tasting adds just the right amount of tention for a lady before getting to business.