>lol< Good Answer there Souls, dear. but frankly I would rather it be a chick that all I knew was that she was clean, not sexier than me (I would hate to lose the love of my life to some damned threesome), and someone I wouldnt have to see again... just in case.

Always
Kyttn

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--Big damn heros Sir.
-Ain't we just.

I would like my third to be another man, preferably a stranger whom I wouldn't have to interact with again; I think that would complicate things the least.
But it's just a fantasy; one of many that will most likely never become a reality.

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I have been in a lot of 3sums, as some of you know, and I am bisexual, so it might surprise you that my first four 3sums were with two men. It just happned that way, and I find MFM 3sums are sexually the most intense. AND I love being the center of attention! It just happened that it was over a year after my first 3sum before the right couple came along, and seduced me.... *sigh*
Emotions seem to run highest in FFF 3sums, so I have learned to avoid them. (have been in a FFF only twice)
Yes, I have been in 3sums where one or both of my partners were relative strangers, and I am a fanatic about safe sex.

Wickedly sandwiched,

WW

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So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho

I also have been in threesomes... I loved all of my experiences.
To me, there was no akwardness because we all knew what it was about. My man and I are swingers, and go to clubs, so there have been semi-strangers... always safest sex possible. I feel most comfortable with people I know. My favorites are FFM. We love taking women to the highest level.

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When my partner and I have discussed the possibility of indulging in a threesome we agreed that our 'guest' should be a mutual friend, someone we knew well. However, we differed about the gender. My wife would prefer a MMF and I, not surprisingly, prefered MFF. So there's our conundrum. Any suggestions?

how bout you do it both ways, me and my hubby have talked about this and would like to be able to do mmf and mff
and I have to agree with BamaKyttn...Sar

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I'm with Sarriah and would go for both
Would like it to be with someone I knew, even slightly. With a mate, I would know that if we got in on and it didn't work we could go get a drink and have a laugh about it.

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I'm from the old school of not sharing.There's not enough of me to
share.If it was my wife:If she wasn't satisfied with me;it would be
time to call it quits.If someone forced themselves on her;I doubt;
that they would be around for a second threesome.I'm not saying
that there is anything wrong with feeling that way.It's just not for
me!Some people believe in Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny.I
have always believed that there is one person in the world that
is meant for you.Maybe I'm a romanticist but with all of my vices;
I'm allowed to believe in something! Irish
P.S.Different strokes for different folks!(There really is a"Great
Pumpkin!")

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That's cool Irish. However, that is not for me. I have been in one threesome, but the other girl was a little insecure, so I would like to try the ffm thing again, this time with a stranger. i would also love to try mfm. it's just finding those two guys willing to do it.