Im 18 and a virgin the problem is that i met a girl and it came time for sexual intercourse but she was surprised at my size then when we tryed to do it she said stop and said theres no way that thing is gona fit inside me she said her ex was 7 inches long and 4.5 thick im 9 1/2 long and 5.5 thick now i will never have sex i guess am i a freak she made me feel like im some freak

I read some steps to ensure a comfortable fit toobig


First, foreplay and lots of it. Get her excited.
Use your finger if needed
Make sure she isnt tense or nervous. If shes nervous you could stick a pop can in there and she'd crush it. Tell her what you feel about her, ask if she wants to do this.

Also, she will retract when giving birth, so NO your penis isnt to big. You have to get her excited and 100% confident or she'll be tense

Good Luck my friend and....

May the girth be with you....always

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I agree with MrNebraska.
Also lots of lube. The first couple
of times it may not be perfect but
when she gets used to it she'll have
herself a ball with that one.

May the lubed girth be with you

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i dont understand the irish part and whats with the may girth be with u statement anyway yes i tried lube and all the other stuff she just says its way too big she says its scary to think i wanna put it in her. My brother said i just got a big one and have to live with it he said he got a 7 incher and the ladies love his dick its a perfect size as for me i have to find a girl that slept with alot of guys that are lose to have sex this sux i allways thought a big penis was golden but now its more like rusty copper

then maybe this girl isnt right for you toobig. If she isnt able to get over the size of your penis she may never enjoy sex with you. I would suggest to re-evaluate your relationship. there are many girls that enjoy a really big cock. I could only imagine the fun I would have with a cock that big. Dont look down on the situation. She was one of nearly 3 billion women in this world. There are plenty out there that wont have a problem with your size or girth.

I agree with Airhog - your girth shouldn't be the problem, though if you've got the length right, then you will have to tread carefully.

Shouldn't the issue of responsibility for dangerous weapons be on the "THREAD"

You're no freak toobig, you'll have lots of fun.

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toobig... be careful what you wish for... one day you will have a better understanding on how to use it (and when not to), how to compensate for it in other ways, and how to use it to your advantage... all of that will come with time and experience

Believe me.. not all women are intimidated by a big tool wooohooo... enjoy!!

It is impossible to be "too big". i read it somewhere.

I admit, the first time I was my bf's dick I freaked out, big time. I got all tense and worried, in the end, it wouldnt go in because the muscles were all tensed up, and even if he did get it in, he was sooooo scared he would hurt me.

in the two weeks after that, we tried again, after a lot of foreplay and taking things slowly. And oh god did I enjoy it!

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oopsy i mean SAW, not WAS

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I didn't say it was your fault. I said I was going to blame you.

Tinkerbell is definitely right--relaxation is the key.

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There is no such thing as too big...well maybe... but you are not by the size you mentioned. Like everyone said if she would just relax and not be so worried about it she would enjoy her self.

You can also try starting with fingers...one then two then three and so on...playing that way over a period of time until she is used to the size of the width of your hand...then try your penis again might do the trick...it did with me.

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WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.

*Just sit there and nod head*

Just wait till someone loves it!

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well i dont think its the girth that she cant deal with its the lenth cause its like i have to leave 2 inches or so that cant go in her she makes me hold my hand at the base