Some people take a lot of pride in being someone's first (often referred to as earning their "white wings"). I've known some guys who treat it like a score. A girl I knew told me it turned her on to fantasize about being my first, because you never forget that person.

Any thoughts/experiences?

Being someones first is a special thing. Not just for the recently deflowered virgin but for the other person as well. The virgin chose that person to give a special gift to. I have been lucky enough to have been with 6 virgins. While they may never forget their first time, I will never forget the present they gave me.

Not so crazy about being first,but give me those sloppy seconds.heh heh heh

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The guy I lost my virginity to, also lost his to me. That was special...and I belive it'll always be memorable in the other person's mind.

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I don't need to be their first; I just need to be their *best.*

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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author

Oooh, now that is a motto to live by, IAKG!

*Scribbles that into my notebook*

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Though dreams can be deceiving, like faces are to hearts; they serve for sweet relieving when fantasy and reality lie too far apart.-Fiona Apple

<-----has added that life philosophy to her signature.

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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author

IAKGirl~ you rule btw!


I don't wanna be somebody's first. Too much responsibility Then they'd be all ruined for anyone else

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I want experience...virginity is overrated

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Brilliant IAKG!

Any first is special. But I have to say the few times I was someone else's proper first...I've been more wrapped up in making it special for them than really been about enjoying it myself. So while it's fun, I don't think I'd have called it especially sexy.

But that's just me.

Can you imagine? All of these men running around, searching desperately for something equal to the spoiling Lil and I already gave them?

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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author

I was my hubby's first. I had had sex with around ten guys before I met DH. Our first time together was the first time I had ever made love. KWIM?

rotflmbfao~ a tragedy indeed

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

Interesting perspectives here... I think I've already been ruined since I tend to hope for someone like those I know here on Pixies.

As soon as I find out someone hasn't ever done something, I always want to be the first to do it with them! LOL

It's not a score card thing, just an addiction to seeing a look of pure joy when someone experiences something heavenly for the first time ever.

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