How do you identify the spark? How do you know it is mutual and not just a wishful interpretation? How do you pick up on the signs and not doubt yourself? Is there a specific moment that you say "Yeah, that is a definete YES", or does it usually require a obvious innuendo (a pan over the head sort a speak)?

Do you give clues? Or do you possess the ability to be up front and crystal clear on your motives and intentions? Do you worry that your intentions (or lack there of) are being misread and miscontrued?

Do tell...

and yeah.. I guess I am in a deep type of mood...

You need some sun and a pillow fight.

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Half of a set :halo:

It's in the Kiss ...................... and the warmth of an Embrace. (What do I know.................... I'm just a Hopeless Romantic)

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Good question jenna I wish I knew a sure fire way to tell if that someone was intrested in you. Diferent people give off diferent signals. I've found out later that I've missed out on chances. The best way to find out is ask them if they do or out on a date.
I know this can be hard for some people (me being one of them) but if you don't put yourself out there you'll never know. So I say go for it you really have nothing to lose.

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it's only kinky the first time

it's not the orgasm but getting there thats fun

a shot in the bush is worth two in the hand

whip me, beat me, tie me up, break my arm, but please don't break my heart

"The trouble with the world is that the stupid people are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt" -Bertrand Russell

It's all in the eyes. The eye contact that lingers because you can't.... not look. when I smile sheepishly and bite my lip, it means I'm not gonna be satisfied til I taste him.

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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i agree with Lilith its all in the eyes, a certain glow or sparkle is there, and it hypnotises you and the other person. or a quick slap on the butt, that seems to get my attention.

When you cen get close to their face (in their space) and it doesn't seem to bother them, there's quite possibly something there...


Just my 2 cents

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"Old man, how is it that you can hear these things?

Young man, how is it that you do not?"

It's in the subtle non verbal communication~~a look, a touch, a kiss~~~~~~~~~~~~

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Don't pet the sweaty things!!!!

I hate to sound this sentimental, but I think it is in the eyes, but can only be sealed with the kiss...the moment the lips touch you will know.

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Love...the slowest form of suicide.

Are you talking about in person or on here Jenna?

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Half of a set :halo:

I note most of you say the eyes. If they have something wrong with their eyes then what?

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Half of a set :halo:

Catch 22 asks a good question. What then?

I think it's a variety of things. Yes, being allowed into their personal space or being comfortable with them in my personal space is one of them. Being comfortable with them is a huge one, actually.... on a variety of levels.

The eyes and the things they communicate is another.

Yes, the kiss. I agree there too.... the first kiss can clinch it. I've been with my man for almost 2 1/2 years, but I can remember sooo well that first kiss, how I felt, and how he tasted.

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact that I'm worse than I seem.
~A. DiFranco~

I have a person at school who is visually impaired and yet knowing that I still make direct eye contact. He says he can feel me looking at him and knows I am paying close attention to him. If the eyes are truly the wondows to the soul then your own emotions and personality eminate from your own. To me it's not just the looks they give me but how they receive the energy I am exuding.

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
<~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~>
One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

Ocean blue eyes do it for me.

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"Bend over and allow me to corkscrew you."

I'm the type that is blissfully unaware when someone is hitting on me. If you're interested, you better come right out and tell me, or just grab my crotch and say "I want to fuck your brains out." That seems to work too..LOL