Lately my wife and I are in somewhat of a slump when it comes to our sex life. I mean I get it often enough but I want more, I drive to work already agitated pearing into the windows of cars hoping she is hot...

Once at work I read stories, until I have enough pre-cum in my underwear to choke a horse. I drive home and it is pretty much the same as my drive in. Am I just sex craved? My wife does not understand why I need it soo much. She just does understand that I really do need sex. Whats worse is the stories I've read involve sex with boys/boys girl/girl boy/girl etc...

I've purchased, 2 dildo's and she is open to their use but its not too satisfying for me. I masterbate about once a day, then go to bed and get laid.... Wake up with a boner and want me... She just says 'no' and I have to start me day...

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I think sometimes people are just terribly mismatched in the sexual needs department....and you have to figure out a way to make it work for you. That's always the hardest part.

I don't know that I'd worry so much about what you're reading...hell, I read TONS of stories about domination, bdsm and many OTHER things that I know I wouldn't have a true interest in trying in real life.

#1 I am sooooo glad to not be the one doing your laundry

#2 Yes people often experience times of sexual incompatability.... you never know some day it may be her lookin for a hot stud on the drive in to work...paybacks a bitch

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Maybe something else is making you feel inadequate and you are trying to make up for it by proving you are the big man in bed.

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Nikanik has a point, in asking what your other problem is.

It may not be an inadequacy thing, more a dis-empowerment

you are feeling.

Uncle Sigmund, help!!!

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At least you've got a sex life.

I think thats pretty normal for guys to think of SEX 24hrs. (sorry guys). The only way I can give advise to you is think cool and think of something else. Get urself busy. I mean REAL busy so you don't even have the time to think of this.

Good luck to you

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sweetc0rn, not all guys think of sex 24 hours a day....i think of it 25 hours a day

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Hey guys aren't the only one to think about sex 24-7!!!!!

There are horny women out there too!!!

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talk talk tell her how you feel some times
u need to talk

Alright... maybe some for 25 hrs a day and ladies like Diva will think of it... well... maybe 26 hrs a day!

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