it's been almost 3 mos, but I finally got to have sex again. It's 6wks post baby, I had to wait that long(on top of not feeling like it the last month of pregnancy). Hubby couldn't wait any longer...now, if the pain will just go away. It didn't hurt that bad when I lost my virginity!

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Congratulations!

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LOL Shadowdancer!!!! The pain will go away...don't worry. Just take it easy.. go slow, use lots of lube the first few times and you will get right back into the game.

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It's like falling off a bike Sex post-baby was even better for me. Things had shifted a bit and made g and a spot orgasms easier to get.

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I'm glad for you ShadowDancer! Mrs. WI couldn't imagine ever wanting sex again after our first. Then after she discovered how sensitive her breasts were, well...she didn't mind so much.

Glad you're back to feeling up for it and kiss that baby for me.

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Yay, sex for the new mommy!! I have no advice since I don't have kids but I do love the av!

Yeah, great avatar. Nice to see you're planning ahead.

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Congrats, boy or a girl? and what's the name? Sex will get better and really soon!

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Susan

lil' boy...was 7lbs 5 oz at birth(4wks early). he's 6wks old now and still confused as to when nighttime is. his name is Jaden.

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“Sex is one of the most personal things we do as people. To have someone who says she loves you limit how you express yourself in the bedroom is like a small death. It kills the soul.” --Anita Blake to Jason Schuyler in "Blood Noir" by Laurell K. Hamilton

and he is precious!

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If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
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==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

What a cute baby!

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Very, Very speacil, congratulations.
It is so very speacil what two people can creat whith the help of GOD, it's a miracle.

So glad it's you and not me, done with that part till I am a grandpa, which hopefully will be awhile. But who knows, oldest is 21.

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OMG he's gorgeous, as is his little suit!

SD---Congratulations!Enjoy him.You wouldn't believe how fast, they seem,to grow up.It seems like yesterday,that I was holding
my kids.Now they each have two of their own.Oldest-Boy & Girl.
Youngest-Two Boys. Irish

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When I wrote this the other day, I was under the impression you had just concieved, however, checking the thread later that day I soon realised you had already given birth! D'oh! Wally!

Anyway, please do keep us informed with how littl'n is doing.

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