have sex again with your first partner, if the opportunity arose?

Now you are getting into a really interesting area. I think the answer would be yes, even though I have to admit that it was not the most satisfying by a ling shot. Its still the emotional ties that would be fun to relive. How about you NYC girl?

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" Each day through my window, I watch her as she passes by, I say to myself, you're such a lucky guy. To have a girl like her, is truly a dream come true. Out of all the fellas in the world, she belongs to me. ..
...This couldn't be a dream, for too real it all seems...

But it was just my imagination, runnin away with me, it was just my imagination, runnin away with me. "

Smokey Robinson

Yes, I think so. Drunken teenage fumblings do not leave very good memories. A repeat with age, wisdom and skill would make for a much more interesting and fufilling experience.

If the girl could ever been found again !!

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You are only young once so live life to the full

if the situation was right I think I would after all I have improved my skills so much since then that I would like the chance to redeam myself for the mistakes I made the first time

It's not because the sex wasn't great (it was). But we didn't really love nor cared for each other. It was just a physical thing. Since then I've had relationships where the sex was great and we mattered to and respected each other. I would have loved my first time to have both. That would have made the memory more special.

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Nubian

Like Nubian, no.

We ultimately found we didn't like each other very much

and there are hurts there best left alone.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

Without going into details..............NO!

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Enjoy yourself!
Enjoy me!

Behind me is a Woman rolling her eye's!

The only opinion about me that matters is the one I have of myself

I mean it was good, and it taught me lots, but if i had it to do again I would not have had sex until the girl im with now. Don't get me wrong, I love sex and I'm told I'm damn good at it, but i wish i could have shared it with just my current gf and i. It somehow would have made our bond that much stronger i think. O well.

ClassyDJ

The first time I had sex, is the only regret I have in my life. First, I was waaaayyy too young, only 13 years old. Second, I had been sipping off a few bottles after my girlfriends parents went to bed and was a little tipsy. Third, it was with a guy I had known only one night. And last but not least, I lost my virginity on some wooden stairs at a cabin. OUCH!!! If I got to do it over again, it would have been with my first love, a relationship that lasted seven years. I would have waited and made sure it was all about love. I can seperate sex from love and I can now have a one night fling without thinking twice, but the first time should be with someone that loves you.

You see, my first wasn't a one-nighter, it was (we thought) true love. Didn't last but 6 mos., but very intense, now I see we were both very inexperienced. For years, I had fantasies about showing each other what we had learned, but there would be no way we could get together without the baggage of all the hurts that came after. And now I have seen & spoken to her, (she works at a certain ubiquitous home improvement store with big orange signs,) and I can safely say, I don't feel anything but glad I stayed with the LOML!

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If the theory does not conform to the facts, then the facts must be discarded.

No good deed ever goes unpunished

Never argue with an idiot. He'll drag you down to his level, & beat you with experience.

The opportunity;did present itself;last year.My former girlfriend
visited my parents(parent,one deceased)while on vacation;with-
out;her current husband.She is married now and so am I.I didn't
want to get involved again.I hadn't seen her;in 30yrs.and we
each had made our choices.She was still built like the proverbial
Brick Shithouse but I broke up with her years ago because she
liked sex too much.I know it; sounds stupid;but I was in the
service at the time and wanted someone that I could trust when
I wasn't there.I'm not into sharing.I fooled around(mutual mas-
turbation)only;with a buddys wife;once;while in the service;and
vowed that I would never do it again.It wasn't worth the guilt
feelings that I got;whenever;I looked;at my then friend or my
then girlfriend.(now wife) Irish

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(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)

My first I definitely wouldn't do over. One night stand... I thought it would be more, but I was just young and stupid. If I wasn't happily married now though, I'd consider sex again with my first long term boyfriend. I've learned quite a few more tricks and would love to make his head spin, not because I really enjoyed sex with him, I think it's a kind of power trip.

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"You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct
way, and the only way, it does not exist." ~Friedrich Nietzsche

Sometimes I think I would like to go back there. I was 12 and she was in her twenties. She asked me to mow her yard, then she invited me in for tea. I learned a lot, but I wonder sometimes how she would do with an adult. If she would be intimidated or just how she would react.
I did love her being in control.
An Old cowboy

My first time was sad. I was drunk and, to this day, I don't remember her name. We came back to my dorm room, I fucked her hard about three times, and then I never saw her again.

My second go round would have been my first choice...oh well, that's what young, drunk, and stupid does to you.

rrabbit

I would have to say a NO. I was 18 and he was 19. To take something that is meant to be special and turn into a five minute quickie...NO thanks...!! I see him now and then when I go home for a visit, and I say "Ewwwwwwwwwww.....why did it have to be him!" I also hear his wife isn't too happy either! She as a few on the side!!

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