I finally did it, I had anal sex. And very surprsing to me, it didn't hurt, at all. I was a lil scared about anal sex for the longest time, because I assumed it would hurt a lot, because in porn and in stories and the such, the girl would look like she's in intense pain, and lots of people say their experiences were painful.

And, I only lost my vaginal virginity about 7 months ago, and that hurt like a BITCH. And so then I figure that if my vaginal virignity sex was so fucking painful, then anal sex would probably hurt even more than that.

I was curious and always wanted to try, but never did it, because I was a lil be scared. Finally, this weekend, we decided that we would wnat to try. So first he had sex with me vaginally, and I put a small buttplug into my butt to loosen me up a lil bit. The buttplug isn't too big and I've put it in a few times, but I thought the penis was a lot bigger than that.

After we had normal sex and I came, we decided to do anal. We changed condoms and put a lot of lube on the condomed penis. Then I lay on my stomach and spread myself for him, and waited for pain.

When the head went in, it felt a lil weird, but there was no pain. And then he started slwoly sliding in. I could barely believe it when he said he was almost the all way in. When he was completely in me, I could not believe it, there was no pain. NO PAIN. whatsoever. it felt a lil weird when he started moving in and out, sort of an annoying crapping feeling, but there no pain. not even a little bit.

it's ironic, because sometimes I feel like my pussy gets sore easier than my ass did. I would use a lot of lube and get sore but I don't really think my ass got that sore, maybe a lil, but not as sore. and he said he could put it all the way in and it didn't hurt me. sometimes deep penetration hurt when he was having vaginal sex with me.

and then we had anal sex, and we did it once again later, and I was used a vibrating dildo in my pussy at the same time. and we tried a few positions - lying on my stomach of course, lying on my back with legs up, doggy, and side. I am still an anal novice, but I want to share my wonderful story to you

Congratulations

yep, i'm growing to like it more and more myself..have done it before, but haven't been such an avid fan since very recently..i'm still weening myself off a very small butt plug and having anal sex little by little

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Xs and Os,
Kristin

With the right person, anal sex can be totally amazing!

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Like a favorite pair of torn blue jeans, this skin I'm in it's alright with me; it's not old -- just older.....Bon Jovi

Congratulations...I guess this would be the wrong time for the old slogan,"No Pain No Gain..heh heh Just a little anal humour there...If the both of you are a monogamous couple and once you feel more comfortable with it,try it without the condom.

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yeah we tried once w/o and once with condom

You go girl. Nothing better than losing inhibitions.

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours

and nothing better than anal...well almost nothing!

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I think maybe the lack of pain is because I was really really relaxed and comfortable with him, and how much I am in love with hiim. what do you think?

when I lost my vaginal V it was a guy I was dating, and I did care about him, but I wasn't in love with him, nor the next few guys, so maybe thats why sex hurt then.

it definitely doesn't hurt when you're so much more turned on....b/c yep the muscles are relaxed...i've learned that it makes it feel so much better!

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Kristin