Okay.... here is a bit of back story....

I left Pixies for several years... during which I married (after 14 years of being single) a man who I had every intention of spending the rest of my life with... that was until I discovered he was using meth and seeing his ex-wife... that was 3 years ago... I have been single ever since....

I am now at a point where I am missing the companionship & the SEX.... however, I am not one for the bar scene and haven't figured out any other way to meet eligible worthy men....

Looking for suggestions, experiences, etc....