I'm glad this thread was revived. I agree completely with this quote.

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact that I'm worse than I seem.
~A. DiFranco~

I'm more inclined to agree with Lixy.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

And I'll still go up the down staircase.

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I agree with Flute Lady and therefore Clint. Love is all in the mind and what is cyber but all in the mind? It is a two way interaction. Unlike stories or picks one feeds off the other....

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R.I.P.

DAM THE MAN!

cyber sex is literally a safe way to relieve sexual tension when his/her partner is not present and it is just a fantasy. Many maintain that they would never carry out the imaginative stories they concoct online. Plus, they claim, that cyber sex can benefit the non-participating partner too, wherein they sometimes become so aroused from the cyber sex that their real-life partner receives the heavenly fruit of their labor.

I say it all depends on the motives. if it's in fun or nonserious then NO

Sheep do cybersex?!? How do they type????

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Speaking of fall...how're the leaves doing?


I have a slight recollection of someone needing a leafblower?

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

The leaves turn later here in San Francisco than they do in Ohio....but never fear, when the leaves start falling I'll take a naked romp in them and think of my leafblower....

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

This is a great question that I'm sure many have pondered!

I'm all for good hot chatting. However, if someone is in a relationship, they should be disclosing to their partner if they are doing things on-line with other people. I'm a big fan of keeping everything in the open. Whenever we try to hide things or justify questionable practices to ourselves, I think we run the risk of creating really large problems down the line and ultimately hurting our partners. The other thing to keep in mind is to ask ourselves, would it be totally ok with me if my partner was doing this behind my back and not telling me? While we all like to think we would be totally open to our partner doing those things, the sting of reality is another thing.

Alter

I couldn't have said it better myself Alter, I agree with you 100%.

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Good friends are like stars... you don't always see them, but you know they are always there.