I don't know if I'm asking for tips or just having a winge. The problem is gonna fix itself when we move this summer, I'm sure.

Cowgirl....love it. Always have. One of my altime favorite positions, and I just can't seem to get it right in our current apartment. Our bed is just too damned soft. We sink into it, and I just can't get any damned bounce going. All the movement comes from my thighs...and while it's a great workout, I just can't finish what I start .

So I haul him down onto the floor, which...wait for it.....is TOO HARD. My poor knees! And still, all the bounce is my poor overworked thighs.

My legs are looking great, but I want more out of this than isometric toning! I'm getting desperate . Short of renting a hotel room for the night just to scratch that itch (errr....again..../blush)....is there ANYTHING I can do to get it just right?

Hmmm, probably should've chucked this into advice...ah well....it'll have to sink or swim here.

G

It's very hard to figure out what's going wrong when you're deeply involved in the situation. If only you could step out of your body and examine what's happening with an impartial eye.

I guess what I'm suggesting is...









Send me a video of you banging Mr. GingerV.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Now, see, when I saw you'd replied I just KNEW you'd put your finger on the problem . Or, at the very least, you'd put your finger on something that made me forget the problem entirely!

G

Well, you've helped so many people. It only seems fair that I should offer what assistance I can in your time of need.

So where were we? Oh yes...

:nopics:


Ok, seriously. With your problem, is he using his fingers to stimulate your clitoris and using his tongue on your nipples while you're riding him? See...I'd know the answer if I saw the movie. ha ha

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Maybe try it on the floor with some pillows under your knees. *shrugs*

I think we definitely need some documentation to fully rectify this situation.

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Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
"The road goes ever on..." ~ Tolkien

In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

Go buy an air matress, or even a yoga pad. Should be able to give you enough cushion to be comfortable.....and it's cheaper and more-reusable than renting a hotel room.

Plus...there's the added benefit that he'll get *very* excited every time you fire up the air mattress....

Of course, you MUST also try it in the store to confirm it works.....

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I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney