No hitachi, not foo-foo at all. Because I, like you, treat each time different. No two days are alike. She isn't in the same mood every day, so, get the lay of the land, so to speak, and treat each encounter as seperate, keeping in mind that you know what she likes, gives you a general idea of where to head with it, but allowing for each individual experience to itself. In other words, it can't be choreographed. You can have an idea of what, and where, and when, but other than that, let the experience flow and come alive with pleasure, loving, and go with the flow to the point where you become oblivious to everything else but pleasuring your partner, reading her emotions as they happen, and getting the ultimate pleasure from seeing hers.

Just my 2 cents worth, but that's how it happens for me.......

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Always remember, life is not how many breaths you take, but the moments that take your breath away!

I've been told I could suck a golf ball through a garden hose.......Does that come close enough? LOL!

To answer the question............A wonderful lover is someone attentive to my reactions to his actions. Sort of like following the bouncing ball........knowing the perfect "what comes next" when I react a particular way.

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~

Yeah................I had that dream..................................But then I woke Up.

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Lixy I think I'm in love .....well heat at least! :lust:

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There's someone in my head, but it's not not me - Pink Floyd