I think there are many connections between sex and food, I was recently reading where men will often watch how a woman eats and drinks to get a sense of how she will kiss and make love. The more robust a woman's appetite, the more likely she'll be open and passionate.

Take a look at your lady or yourself. Do you think there might be a connection between the way a woman enjoys food and the way she enjoys sex?

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When I look at myself, I think I have a love affair with food! I adore most all of it. I tend to be one that has food cravings or desires if you will, and an unfullfilled desire and I'm left unstatisfied.

I also tend to be very tactile with my food. I like to eat with my fingers. It's often easier and I think it's sensual. I know appauling to some. Oh well, tis my way. As a girl my father sent me to charm school for using my finger to push my corn onto my fork infront of company. Needless to say I still use my fingers. Look away if you find it repulsive.

Food should be an exploration of tastes, textures and enticements. I suppose like sex, how do we know that we don't like something unless we try it? So it is with me. I like to touch it, feel it, taste it, savor it. Enjoy it fully.

In my opinion, if you take a woman out to eat and ask her what she'd like to eat, and you get a reply like, "I don't care, whatever you want." She will be a passive lover. On the other hand, if you ask a woman and she replies with, "I want Kung Pow Beef and ice cream coffee for dessert." Odds are she's going to tell you what she wants between the sheets too!

Long story short, I think there is a definite connection.

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Interesting theory. I think you are on to something regarding decisiveness whether it be dealing with food or what color to paint the bathroom.

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I have never watched the way a woman eats her food to try to determine the way she kisses, ect, but for me there definitely is a connection between food and the more sensual side of life.

I absolutely love food, if I wasn't doing what I do now, there is a very good possibility I would have tried to become a chef. I am adventurous in my food, and love to appreciate it, whether it be the texture, the presentation, the multitude of flavors and how they dance in my mouth. Spicey, savory, sweet, subtle, strong, the smell of it...I could go on and on about this...and my carnal desires are reflected (or perhaps my love of food stems from my desires) by my love of food (love the way a woman feels, looks, smells, tastes, how she shivers when I touch her in a certain way, ect).

As to whether it is a true indication of what kind of lover someone is by their food choices or how they appreciate food, I have no idea, but speaking for myself...that would be a yes.

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I would say the way some one eats reflects thier pesronality which can reflect how they are in bed. But like everything else you never know for sure.

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As George Carlin once said, can anyone watch a woman eat a banana & not think of a blowjob?

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I personally think there is....guess I'll have to study this one, now that I'm single.

Everything you ever wanted to know about sex,you can get by watching the Food Channel. heh heh I agree, there are many simularities between sex and food. Especially when the two are combined in bed. One of my favourite books by Isabel Allende is Aphrodite.

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I'm hungry right now. Does that make me sexy?

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That depends, do you know what you're hungry for?

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If I sey "cock" will that help?

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Welllll...there is certainly sexuality in many of the eating scenes in movies and many sensual movies that are focused on food and eating, e.g. "Eat Drink, Man Woman", "Chocolat", "Like Water For Chocolate", and "Babette's Feast".

Oh yeah, and "Nine 1/2 Weeks" with food caressing along Kim Basinger's skin.

Very interesting idea. All I can say is that I enjoy good food and am not afraid to verbalize my appreciation of it. I also love sucking cock and am equally willing to verbalize my appreciation of it, especially the tasty treat I get at the end.

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I have to agree with you and so enjoyed Like Water for Chocolate and Chocolat, as well as Nine 1/2 Weeks... *adds Eat Drink, Man Woman and Babette's Feast to my "video's to view list."

thanks rockintime!

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