ok, so today in probably just over 4 hours from now, im going to an orgy (4sum) with my gf, one of my friends and one of her friends. i kinda have mixed feelings about this though. im not sure if i want to see my gf get fucked, but at the same time, thinking about 4 people being naked like that gets me really horny. Anyone have any advice?

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"savvy?"
"...but you have heard of me!"
"...try not to do anything.....stupid!"

-Captain Jack Sparrow

Well why don't you take some pics, post them and then we can draw a conclusion from that..

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I'm fuckin outta here! 4/5/04

Here's what I just posted you in the Advice section:

If anyone is not fully into this, it is best to NOT do it. If you aren't sure now, the impact of seeing it happen could have a very bad impact on the relationship.

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Speaking from experience.

If you aren't comfortable with it at any time, YOU CAN STOP. It doesn't matter if you are all naked and ready, it doesn't matter if you haven't even got started or are about to start, or if it's three days in advance.

Also you need to make sure that you have set rules about what can and cannot happen that everyone can agree on. How far things can go and the like. Without these guidelines repurcussions are inevitable!

Just my two cents.
SK

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Once you can accept the universe as Matter expanding into Nothing, that is Something. After that, wearing stripes with plaid is easy. --unknown

You can always go and "just watch" for a while.
The trouble will occur if one of you does fancy someone else and the other doesn't.
I think you would be far more comfortable finding a couple that you both find attractive and make a private arrangement.
It will always depend on how strong your relationship is.
But remember the saying
A standing cock has no conscious!!

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Ladies, let me fulfil your sexual fantasy.

hell, go for it because you only have one life!

say no and it wil be gone forever. (probably)

report back to us on how it goes

ive always found when i PLANNED group sex it never happened and when it was spontanious it fucking rocked my world. i personally cant wait to do it again but if u dont feel comfy for any reason u gotta back out or every one will be uncomfy and it will just be to damn stressfull. if u find u really wanna try it, go for it hun loose urself in the experience . just dont have regrets if u do. i cant wait to bring some "extras" into jeepings and my bedroom, so hard to find ppl tho so damn hard

~nikki

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I don't have any advice, considering I have never been in that situation. Maybe you will just tell us all about it!

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Would you like more sex with that?

I wouldn't recommend sex, drugs or insanity for everyone, but they've always worked for me.

Go for it..if you don't like it, don't do it again. I was in a foursome when I was younger, and my bf couldn't get it up...was embarresing for him..so he went into the bedroom with the girl and no problem..Just have to work things out.

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Susan

yea...well we got to my gf's friends house and we were all so uncomfortable because of the other guy that was there. we decided to play monopoly, but it got changed from strip monopoly to boring monopoly. then we went to the bedroom and layed there for a while. my gf and i started making out and i went up her shirt, and her friend and my friend started making out...there was some contact like i rubbed her friends leg, but thats about it. (her friend is female, my friend is male).

then i pulled my gf's shirt up so her breasts were exposed, but we doubt anyone saw them as our friends were under the blankets...no one ccummed...and it just ended.

although we may just not ask the guy back next time and have a FFM 3some...we all seem to be in agreement that it would be hott (except for the guy who doesnt know...and wont know, lol)

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"savvy?"
"...but you have heard of me!"
"...try not to do anything.....stupid!"

-Captain Jack Sparrow

What was wrong with him?

Can't resist asking.

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.

whatswithme, i assume that its just nerves that made you not want to do it, if you feel that you truly want to do it then eventually it will happen. i had my first 4some last year, well id been trying for about a year before that but i was really scared of the reprecussions it could have on my life, but i conquered those and even tho it took a year it was brilliant.

Speaking from experience....If your NOT FULLY comfortable,DONT do it!!!

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I completely agree, TRUSTNO1. It can cause more harm if everyone isn't fully ready for it.

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