I know this will come as a complete shock to most of you but I am a control freak

Because I am typically the aggresive, take charge type, I find it ironic I am having these nasty, vivid thoughts of non-consentual sex. Not rape necessarily, although I have had dark fantasies, but more of not complying or being startled or surprised...etc. Being taken both by force or just forcefully


Does anyone else have fantasies that surprise them or make them feel uncomfortable????? Maybe I am just a sick bitch


although that is probably true I am hoping I am not the only one

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Does anyone else have fantasies that surprise them or make them feel uncomfortable?




God yes, all the time dear woman! All the time.


Enjoy.

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Uhm, yes. Am I disclosing these here... Heck, no.

And I think you are a sick bitch all the same... now get over here and show me how sick!

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Nahhh...Hadn't noticed.



Fantasies (nightmares?) of having to face the many people I have pissed off in the past by telling it like it is....not to many people appreciate direct honesty...

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Lil!

Any and all sex with you would not be initiated without expressed written consent of the National Football...OOPS! Wrong legal notice!

But seriously. It is very alluring...the tought of, not rape, but not exactly completely defined consent. I don't think there are too many people that would go that road. These days it could be the end of happiness for people.

Still...it is nice to fantasize! I'd be way too chicken to try it! A lady would have to say, "take me now, dammit"!

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Waving hands wildly. Pick me pick me. No I'm probably to willing. But today I might enjoy it to much.

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I have great abs, some men have six packs I have a keg!

bet I could hold you down >j/k<

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Ready willing and able. Always willing to take up a bet.

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I have great abs, some men have six packs I have a keg!

thoughts of not rape, but having someone yummy just being dom and aggressive maybe frightening a bit, but eventually making nonconsent into consent I could play those scenes in my head all day long :P

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Nope - I am a harmless boy.

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Not for me I am a lover not a fucker just the way I am

With regard to non-consensual....No, not my style.

With regard to "uncomfortable fantasies"....OH YES..INDEED!

Some fantasies are potentially unhealthy...perhaps illegal!!...but are harmless when kept in the realm of fantasy. I am lucky enough to be able to (thus far at least) keep fantasy and reality completely separated.

As high sexual people, we here at Pixie's must never fail to realize that our fantasy may in fact be another's greatest fear and nightmare.

The power of sex in our lives is soooo strong...for good...and for ill. For those that sometimes have difficulty remembering this, just stop for a moment to remember your first sexual experience. I bet you remember it well. I'll bet that single experience has made a significant impact on the direction your life has taken. Also stop for a moment to consider how BAD first experiences impact people...ie: abuse. Have you heard how many victims of priests in Boston have committed suicide?? It is staggering.

Not sure why I am on a soapbox today, but I sometimes fear that sexual fun and games can make us blind to some ugly truths.

I think the turn on for me would be the complete submission involved in a non-consensual fantasy would be great. I'm usually the more-dominant person in bed, and just laying back and receiving would be a nice change of pace. (but don't tell him that-- I have an image to uphold )

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of course i do have that type of fantasy all the time

sometimes dreaming about being rape by a horny guy
hehehhhee

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Perhaps, but, being the shy, reserved individual that I am ... always wanting to avoid the least sign of impropriety ... ahem .... I must, of course, defer comment.

hee hee