11-09-2012, 04:18 PM
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Is there a fantasy...
that you haven't even told your s/o about?
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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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11-09-2012, 05:05 PM
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Yes. And I'm sure there are some he hasn't told me. People have a right to privacy within their own heads, I think.
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11-09-2012, 05:08 PM
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I hear ya. That makes sense in it's own way.
I share a lot with Mrs. WI but there's a few scenarios that I haven't divulged. Not because I'm shy, but more because I don't think she'd find them sexy.
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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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11-09-2012, 05:25 PM
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Yeah...the hubby knows I have a cherished strap-on fantasy, but I spare him the details because he's not into that. And he spares me his bukkake fantasies, because eww.  |
11-09-2012, 11:22 PM
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I never really got the whole bukkake thing. That's way more than I can lick clean. ha ha
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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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11-12-2012, 05:03 PM
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yes...but mainly because I'm not entirely comfortable even acknowledging it myself....
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11-12-2012, 06:19 PM
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Yes.
Next question? 
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The selfish, they're all standing in line
Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
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11-13-2012, 08:16 AM
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Ok...as a follow up...is there something that you think, realistically, that your s/o might be harboring that you aren't sure you would feel comfortable doing?
I often think of myself as an individual that is open to pretty much anything, but I'm sure I have my limitations. Knowing Mrs. WI, I'm positive that I would be ok with any scenario she could possibly come up with. Conversely, I'm positive I could come up with a few scenarios that would have her running from the room. ha ha
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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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11-13-2012, 12:55 PM
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I think there are some fantasies of his that would have to stay fantasies for health and safety reasons, so I wouldn't be comfortable doing them. For example, that bareback consensual gangbang with strangers we just met. Not because I don't like the idea, but that's pretty risky behavior that neither of us would be willing to engage in real life, however fun it might be to talk about. Between just the two of us? I suspect we've played most of those out by now.
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11-13-2012, 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted by AZRedHot
Between just the two of us? I suspect we've played most of those out by now.
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I'd venture to say you've played out most of mine too. 
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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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11-13-2012, 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted by WildIrish
I'd venture to say you've played out most of mine too. |
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11-13-2012, 04:21 PM
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I have to develop new fantasies just because you've acted them out?
I'll run that past Mrs. WI and let you know how that works out. lmao
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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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11-13-2012, 08:54 PM
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Like you're not constantly making up new fantasies anyway?
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11-14-2012, 12:05 AM
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Actually, I have a steadfast few. Maybe I'm not overly creative.
I mean, really, there's only so many things you can do with a sheep.
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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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11-14-2012, 09:06 PM
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Originally Posted by WildIrish
Ok...as a follow up...is there something that you think, realistically, that your s/o might be harboring that you aren't sure you would feel comfortable doing?
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somewhat, yes...there is something I know he'd like more often...I've dabbled with it on a small scale...but I'm not sure WHY I'm not more comfortable with it on a regular basis. *shrug* 13 yrs together (11 married) and I'm still shy about some stuff.
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