This is a bit of an old chestnut question I know. It would be nice to have a quick vote and see the results.

What I am asking is, in your steady sexual relationships which of you, male or the female, USUALLY cums first.

I was in the habit the habit of waiting for her to cum first. But Mrs Xpose introduced me to the idea that I might cum first, then I can concentrate and help her to reach her orgasm, perhaps by using my fingers and tongue, cocks usually too soft

But the important thing is that there is no routine, and we can cum, and go as we please.

What do you think?

when i first started to have sex with my man he made a concentrated effort for me to cum first but the frustration just about killed the pair of us!! in theory it sounds dead sweet but in actual fact my guy usually ends up gettin so turned on when hes tryin to get me to cum that we have to stop everything to let him calm down. so now he usually comes first....but hey whos complainin coz that bits fun for me too and it means that ive got his attention for as long as i want it without any interuptions!!

but most of the time I make sure my wife comes first. I love licking and eating her pussy, even more so than her do me, and this alone is enough to bring me to the edge. It doesn't take much from there to push me over

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Is quite amazing, it is great to just watch on, and maybe lend a helping hand. Love my fingers squelching around in her pussy sopping with a combination of hers and my juices.

Agree entirely TummyKitten (great name too)

unless it's that time of month, and she's just giving me some relief , she cums first... & 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, etc....

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I usually let my wife have a few orgasms first, then I blow my load...and if she wants more and I am soft, I either finger her or use her toys to let have a couple more. On average she has about 7-8 a love making session. I am happy with 1 or 2!

But sometimes I can blow my load just like that!!

Like just now, when I saw Diva's pics!! And what a big one it was

She cums 1st no matter what!!!......
I have always made sure that in my years the lady cums first!
and like scotzoidman said, and 2nd and 3rd and 4th.....;-)

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but thats because i like haveing her go that way by the time the second one comes around i blow my load bigger and longer than if i went right away.

Who cums first,
Most of the time she does. I really enjoy eating pussy and she really enjoys having her pussy eaten so that makes pretty certain that she goes first. Then we try to time our orgasms together when were fucking like crazy.

Using my;toungue or fingers;I always get my wife off 3 times!
Even when we were going together,she always could orgasm;at
least;3 times.After that what we do always varies.I have found
that;thru the years;if you keep the other person satisfied it's
always easy to have contact with them again.They know that
you don't think only of yourself and are not going to be frustrated!
If the other isn't satisfed then it is not enjoyable for me! Irish

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Wow..all your wives are lucky!!!!!!!

He usually ends up cumming first!!! Then he needs a 1/2 hour break....
Guess he can't handle me

My sex life sucks...... lol.. glad I have my toys!!!!!!!!!

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It's more fun and it has worked for us for 25 years

It is so much fun to cum together. We have a penalty system and the one that comes first has to do what the other one wants for the next 3 days. hehe some fun. I win a lot.

to keep a relationship fresh. I think my wife and I will borrow a page from your book J.O.Y.

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