I know it's different for everyone lol...but some friends and i were discussing this at the poker table the other evening. About how many dates should you be going on till you have sex? I know it's all about vibe/communication & connection but lets see if we can find a statistical trend. Vote honestly here people

I don't feel that I can honestly vote on this. It's not something set in stone. I have dated people for a year and not had sex with them, and I have had sex on the first date before. You have to make that decision on your own, it's not something that can be dictated by a set number of dates, sorry.

I would say that if I wasn't having sex by date #5, I would move on. It's too important to me in a relationship.

By sex, do you mean intercourse?

My "dates" have always made me cum on the very first date, one way or another.

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Si nous sentons encore l'espoir de nos grands-parents...
Si dans les voiles du large souffle encore le vent...
Y'a jamais eu de Grand Dérangement.

No idea really, I've never given it any thought. Maybe 4 or 5 dates on average.

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I'll add though, I had sex on the first date with the man who I'm about to have a child with, and we go back a long way.

It varies significantly - between about 3 and about never...

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I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I was such a cow to my current partner I mad him wait 3 months before we had sex....
it was about 12 dates

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ME: 22
DP: 30
DSS: 8
DD: 7 months

I voted 11-15 as I think I have to know a guy pretty well before I even know whether I want to have sex with him. Having said that, most of my partners have been friends before they were lovers so there hasn't been any formal dating, just lots of getting to know each other beforehand.

Of course, Fussy is kind of the exception as we had sex within hours of our first meeting, but then of course I'd known him for about 4-5 months online before meeting up, so once again, I knew him pretty damn well by then.

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Fruit flies like a banana"

M Y - N A U G H T Y - P I C T U R E S ! !

I've only had one partner. We had lived at opposite ends of the same house for 5 months before things turned romantic. However there was nothing like a date.

I read a story in a newspaper last week claiming that couples that had slept together on there first date had a better chance of having long term relationships, I'll have a hunt around on the BBC website to see if they have the story.

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its all fun and games till someone lose's a bollock!

three or four usually, but it depends. You never know, sex might be a good ice breaker prior to date #1!

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And darkness overcame until she screamed alone in vain.
Oh how lovely as she gasps, yet so innocently sleeping.
Bullet to the head... soon you'll be sleeping
Pull this trigger to your antidote
She had the eyes of an angel with a heart like a traitor
We always knew you'd go up in flames
We always you'd go out with a bang

It was for us Emzo - I was nervous as hell until we did that, and then it just felt 'normal' to be together afterwards.

I expect Mayhem and Lizzardbits are feeling relieved that I don't have to break the ice that way with all my online friends!!!!!! Hahahaha

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"Time flies like an arrow -
Fruit flies like a banana"

M Y - N A U G H T Y - P I C T U R E S ! !

Cool!!

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It's a BOY!!

Dates are pretty sticky, but tasty. I wouldn't have TOO many of them before sex or you might be farting during the crucial moments.

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