my ex-boyfriend is sitting in a wheelchair. now i wonder if i´m the only who have had sex with a person in a wheelchair? how was it for u?

~Back when I was 17, I had a friend who was in a car accident and was paralysed from the waist down. It took him 2 years to accept the person he became. As all his friends did. We beacme very close and spent alot of time together. We went out to drive-in theatres, parties and even dancing! Dancing was the best....ever slow dance and kiss sitting on a man's lap?? Wow..it's like you are floating on air...mmm ~Sigh~

Anyway, to make a long story short, even though he was uncapable of achieving an erection, the passion, the wanting, the desire, the man...was still there. The love making was out of this world....his sole desire was to please and fullfil...not with his penis, but with his soul..... it was simply amazing...

Just because this person was in a wheelchair, didn't mean he couldn't love...he just loved deeper and more intimate.

I really miss him...due to complications with his accident he passed away 20 years ago. But Nobody has ever come close to his sensual love making since...

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I know what u mean... He was so gentle and kind, not like my other ex-pigs. Thank god there is Viagra now :yellghst: . Unfortunately he is TOO kind, i want it rough. Please give advice... am i crazy? He is every womens dream, good looking, kind, gentle, romantic... but still i dont know... im so confused, im 21, hes 31. I feel i need to live out my youth before i settle with him. Argh, this topic drives me mad!!!

Why not? Just because someone may be in a wheelchair doesn't mean that they don't have needs. It may not be intercourse, but the touching, caressing and so on is just as nice...

~~Follow your heart Nina~~


Rough is great!! Rough is exciting!! Rough is good......!!!!!
But it is not everything. Yes rough sex is great when you are young...but when you get my age.... you want the romance, the touching, the exploring, the sensuality of it all...and the odd rough romp in the hay.
But all I can tell you is to follow your heart and communicate your feelings to him..that is very important. He has to know how you feel and what you want sexually.
Tell him you want it rough...it's pretty amazing how fast and hard they can move when they really want something!

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