05-28-2004, 05:28 PM
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PM is a Privilege
It can, and will be removed if misused.
Examples of misuse would be:
Threatening people.
Harrassment (sexually or otherwise)~ just because someone posts pics does not mean you have the right/need to PM them with sexually graphic tones. It is polite/expected for you to seek out whether someone wishes to engage in that sort of dialogue.
Repeatedly PMMing someone who has made it clear they are not interested in hearing from you.
Spamming a paysite by Pmming members in groups.
If you receive a PM that causes you alarm or is troublesome DO NOT DELETE IT!!!!! PMs should be forwarded to myself or another mod so that we can deal with it discretely. If you delete it you prevent us dealing with the problem effectively.
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05-28-2004, 05:30 PM
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Everybody Stretch!
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Make this a "sticky" Lil!
Good thread! TY hun!
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05-28-2004, 05:32 PM
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Everybody Stretch!
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Oops!
Done! And Done!
*backs out slowly*
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05-28-2004, 05:40 PM
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should I send you copies of ALL the PMs I get from Pixie ladies asking to use my body? 
should I send you copies of ALL the PMs I get from Pixie ladies asking to use my body on both these threads?
Fat chance of me giving up THAT PM. 
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05-28-2004, 05:52 PM
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05-28-2004, 06:09 PM
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Don't say "sticky" and then tell me not to PM. :lust::dizzy:
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PANTIES
the best thing next to cuchie
"If God didn't want you to play with it, He would have put it between your shoulder blades,..... not at the end of your arm"
Except for speculation, we ONLY have NOW and EACHOTHER!
real world of cyber people ~ Pixies ~ real people of the cyber world
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05-28-2004, 06:32 PM
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I don't want your body mate LOL
I am sorry to see that this thread is required. I enjoy seeing the intimate pics that members post. it is wonderful that we are allowed to be able to share them. Certainly i never gt the idea that it is an invitation for me to PM the poster with sexually explicit messages.
It is like any interpersonal exchange anywhere. You first find out if the person is receptive to that sort of message.
to show your body in sexy poses is a thrill to many of our members, it is a place like Pixies where it should be a pleasure and not expose them to unwanted advances. to show yourself does not automatically mean you want anything more.
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05-28-2004, 09:07 PM
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I take it you've had problems lately?
I promise, I only spam people with my nudies. 
no, not really, I don't have any posted.  |
05-28-2004, 11:13 PM
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Thanks for the thread Lilith!!! I hate to hear if something bad is going on with fellow pixies!
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05-28-2004, 11:32 PM
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Nothing is wrong...but it never hurts to remind people to mind their manners. 
While I love getting PMs, and have never once had an inappropriate one, I have had a few members complain of receiving unpleasant ones.
Unfortunately these members have consistently been unable or unwilling to produce the troublesome PM. I wanted to get the point across that while I will not tolerate abuse of the features the site provides, I also have my hands tied if not given anything substantial to work with. |
05-29-2004, 12:20 PM
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Lil, someone who monsters through the PM system doesn't sound
like a heartland Pixie-ite anyway. Pixie folk are nicer than that.
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05-30-2004, 05:54 AM
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Just me.
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You said it, OF.
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06-07-2004, 01:03 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by Lilith
While I love getting PMs, and have never once had an inappropriate one
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That's very refreshing to hear, Lilith.
Cuz some of the things that I want to do to you sound very inappropriate! The result of a misunderstanding, of course.
But seriously, it is sad that a gentle reminder like this is necessary, but if we all work and play well together (except PF and Steph of course) then everything will stay great!
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