Hello all. This is my first post. I guess you could call me a forum virgin. lol I am the Sumen part of BugnSumen. pronounced like sumthen. Anyway on to the topic at hand. I am a 29 year old female that is bicurious. The opportunity has never arisen where I might experiment but I am curious about it. There are many reasons I have never been able to experiment. I feel like if I do try it then I am cheating on my husband, although he says that "hell babe if it is with a woman and not a man it's cool." But I wonder will his feelings change after the event? I also have to admit that in some ways it scares the hell out of me being unchartered terrritory. Then there is the question that what if I enjoy it so much that I no longer want to be with men. there is also the jealousy issue.

Any thoughts, ideas, or advice would be more than welcome.

Sumen