Does how long or how intimately connected to the other person make a difference in which type of online interaction you would choose?

Does it matter?

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Sometimes yes it does, through flirting and getting to know them. I would cyber and cam before giving out a phone number or asking for one. So the more I know about the person, the further I would lean to going "beyond" cyber.

Like everything in life it is situational for me... depends totally on the person on the other side too.

In a perfect world with somone I know and love cam would be second best to real life sex, then phone sex because of the sound aspect, then cyber sex.

In other words feed as many of the senses as possible, make the pleasure the best possible.

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Phone sex has been really good for me these past 8 months. I HAVE to hear his voice! It makes all the difference in the world.

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I can't choose.

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cyber would have to be my first choice....ahhh, the power of an imaginative mind and a good vocabulary......i do enjoy phone too, but not unless it's with someone i know well enough, plus, due to circumstances, phone can be so rushed sometimes......although phone as the culminating point for cyber is soooooo hot......as for cam, i don't have one (don't wanta send half the net off screaming into the night LOL) but i do enjoy watching if the person i'm cybering has one......and to answer lilith's question, yes, the more intimatly i know them, the better either choice is.

i voted cam,


cause thats the only thing i can get anyway

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hungry? why wait.....eat me.

Cam because i'm a visual person

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LOL Poor baby! We really need to do somethin about that you know.

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I am not comfortable enough with my self to turn on the cam... tho I certainly love to watch...

Cyber... well... it has been soooo long.. seems to have lost its appeal... maybe I just need to find the right partner... I have however been lucky enough to be sent more than a few hot PM's that have got me going...

Phonesex... well... the last time was with someone very special.. back in June.. and since that isn't going to be repeated.. I haven't had my phone ringing... it is something I enjoy.. since it helps my sensory stimulation... listening to a mans sexy voice.. and his breathing.. YUM... who knows.. maybe again sometime.... just need to find a willing partner

I once cybered with 4 poeple at once. All as singles not a group. I gave it up after that. It gets boring. Have not done phone. I watch cams sometimes.

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Gotta go phone, especially with the hands free mic.
I'm just not coordinated enough to do cyber :-(

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Cam, especially with audio. This past X-mass my girlfriend at the time was staying with my family and my parents got us both web cams..... Sadly we never used it because she was firmly anti masturbation.... even tried to stop me!

/me wonders if being a cam ho while on the phone would be considered cheating.

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