CunningLinguist,

Probably the most widely read book on sex, the Karma Sutra, makes pains to point out that there are genitally big people and genitally small people. It is better if they are matched, but can still achieve satisfying congress if not.

The biggest sex organ is still the brain, and when you get a woman wanting to cuddle and snuggle, if you don't make it work from there it's on your shoulders.

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Yeah, well I'd like to be appreciated for my penis once in a while.

I've been the victim of lots of dreaded platonic cuddling in my lifetime. I guess it was my fault I was to take innocent cuddling as a sign that a woman thinks of me sexually.

Hence why I don't see myself cuddling either.

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Well sir that seems to be someone else's problem.

Maybe that's just the wrong attitude to have, I want to be appreciated for me. My penis is part of me sure.. a woman with nice breast doesn't want to be appreciated for her nice breasts she wants you to look up and appreciate her. I think your putting too much emphasis on parts and not enough on the whole, if your not happy with a part of you and that is what your focusing on she is going to pick up on that and isn't going to be any happier about it than you are youself.

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You really have to stop pontificating with such sweeping generalizations.

Fine, in my 28 years, I've not met a woman who didn't go through a jock phase.

Personally, I never did go through a cheerleader phase.

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Well sir that seems to be someone else's problem.

well here was great thread that has now gone to shit...



so I'm a little above average, that fits with what I have been told

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Cunninglinguist, I apologise for not reading your entire and very long post, but has it ever occurred to you that more women haven't wanted a sexual relationship with you because you whine too much?!

I don't mean to be rude, but honestly, the attitude you consistently display here at Pixies drives me crazy.

I can't believe a man a year younger than I am has managed to become so bitter in such a short space of time, however I think your comment about cheerleaders is somewhat telling. You think they're stupid but also out of your league. So you still find them sexually attractive despite them being stupid? That's a somewhat shallow attitude.

Perhaps you might find relationships with women somewhat more fulfilling and satisfying if you focused on enjoying them for their personalities and for what you can learn from them rather than feeling that cuddling is something to be dreaded.

I'm sorry, but I'm sick of a lot of the guys on this site making out that the reason they are single is all women's fault. It's not our fault if we find you unattractive, and how about all the unattractive women out there that you completely ignore? If you want a relationship with a woman, go and find the unattractive, socially awkward, poorly dressed loner of a woman at the bus stop/library/coffee shop and ask HER out. If you give her a chance, maybe she'll give you one.

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Those are the kind of women I am attracted to, and those are the kind of women who turn me down. A socially awkward, poorly dressed loner who hangs out at the library still has standards you know and isn't sitting there just waiting for the first poorly dressed, loner to walk through the door. She's still got her panties wet thinking of the high school quarterback. It's biological.

I guess I am not supposed to have standards since you find me repulsive.

Also, it's not just men who always blame the opposite sex for a lack of a fullfilling love life (oh and that's a generaliztion as well), but I've seen plenty of women do it too by saying "Hmmph! All men want is sex!"

And I don't blame women at all. I blame myself. I made the choices in my life that make me unattractive.

Also, don't hate on me becuase I realized as a teenager I don't have anything in common with cheerleaders. Maybe you should praise me because I realized at an early age I'd rather be with a socially awkward, poorly dressed loner, but then you'll probably hate me for it anyways.

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Well sir that seems to be someone else's problem.

How do you factor in the curve?

I've always been comfortable with what I have. Like it or not, it is what it is.

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We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

I'm so with Lou on this one.

I honestly would have no interest in dating someone who tells me ALL women are attracted to X. It's just ignorant.

I can't see how you don't find it ridiculous to tell us that ALL women have been attracted to one type of guy.

I think you do that by inserting it into a copper pipe.

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Confucius say, "He who masturbate into cash register come into money."

An optimist looks at the glass and says it's half full. A pessimist looks at the glass and says it's half empty. A Cubs fan looks at the glass and says, "When's it gonna spill?"

Deus Impetitio Esuritori Nullus

Why on earth would I hate you? Why on earth would I bother wasting so much of my energy on hating anyone, let alone some stranger on the internet? Oh and why on earth should I praise you anyway - I'm not your mother.

But this comment proves my point. Stop being such a whining victim - it's not an attractive trait, and it could so easily be remedied. If you're happy to be single and unattractive to women because of the choices you've made, then stop bloody going on about it!


Back to penises.....I love 'em.....they're soft and hard at the same time! Yay!

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M Y - N A U G H T Y - P I C T U R E S ! !

I didn't say you hated me. You didn't like my motivations on why I don't chase after women who are super skinny with fake boobs.



Ok maybe I am whining, but I don't see myself as a victim. Victim would imply that I didn't deserve this. I think you make it quite clear I do deserve a life of celibacy.



Yes, Lula, it could be. I could go out and find me a nice girl who is willing to have sex with me simply becuase I'm such a nice guy!



I'm happy being single. It beats the alternative of being in a loveless, sexless relationship.

I'm not happy about being unattractive, and I have been working on what I can to make myself at least more attractive. Mainly becuase I feel a lot better about myself when I don't weigh 270 pounds and I have a positive cash flow.



But you don't like all penises. I think that was my point.

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Well sir that seems to be someone else's problem.

I don't see how you don't find it ridiculous to tell me that there could exist one woman who could be attracted to a guy like me. And no, I do think it rather silly to say all women are attracted to one type of guy.

All I'm saying is that my small penis may have been a factor in the four different women that I have gone down on and find an excuse to get up and leave after she came (or she could have faked an orgasm I really wouldn't know to be honest.)

And believe or not I used to like to cuddle, but over the past few years I looked back and realized just how many times I had a girl in my life who was willing to hop into bed with me for platonic cuddling only to have it lead no where because you know she has a boyfriend she really loves, but he doesn't like to cuddle. When I was young and stupid I thought maybe this meant she likes me too that eventually I'd get somewhere. No it meant I was a pillow to her and nothing more.

And you'd be surprised the number of times I've gone out with a girl a few times only to find out she has a boyfriend.

And finally, I love how Loula assumed that I was single becuase I ignore the less attractive ladies. As if all men were attracted to the same kind of women. I hear that on a daily basis too, but no one calls them on it since it's common knowledge men are all brainwashed by pornography and the media to only find anorexic women sexy.

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Well sir that seems to be someone else's problem.

CunningLinguist
Dude give it a F'in break already you've decided you are a fat pathetic loser with a small dick. No one here has told you this. You claim you are happy this way but then make a bunch post about how bad you have it. This tells me you are not happy this way. You claim there isn't anything you can do about it. That's good for you it the easy way out. That way you can sit a wallow in misery.

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