Its about a year since I lost my virginity (I'm 18), but its only recently I've started getting more adventurous. I used to be really nervous when it came to sex and the more my guy went on at me the more I'd refuse. Eventually he calmed down a bit and listened to how I felt about it and became more understanding and less demanding. Then things were a lot better and I was more willing.

Dont push your girlfriend too much, you might end up pushing her away. Is it really worth losing her over when she might come round if you give her some time?

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MonStar---As said by many;you're only 18!First you have to decide
if you really care about this girl.Then you have to learn to respect
the way she feels.She may not want to do alot of personal things
with you until she feels unrestricted with you and realises that you're not just someone;who is there for the sex.(notch in the
belt)I know that my wife is a; totally ;different person;sexually;
then she was until she found that I was very possive&loyal with
her!Until then it was just normal intercourse and handjobs.Of
course;I was; in the service;when we met and servicemen don't
have the best reputation;of being loyal;to women.Give it time!
(Said from the soapbox)Irish
P.S.Believe it or not;I originally went out with her because I was
sick of going out with Pigs!Hard to believe;at 18;when a piece
of cloth rubbing gives you a hardon!

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Thanks for all the great replies.. really really really appreciate it. Yeah I know I do respect her and its time that I change and act like I respect her more.



Shes my best friend, and she could never be replaced.

Wanda...
Well said.

I was a virgin until I was 23! I can't imagine jumping right into anything!

monstar- just enjoy the sex. Treat it as special...and not something she's OBLIGED to give you. Sex is a gift, not a paycheck. Once you learn the difference...and treat her as if she were truely the giver of the gift, she may be more comfortable giving it more often. And by all means...GIVE BACK! Shoot!

If none of this helps, I recommend plenty of masturbation!

From the bar of soap...

Ophelia

Ophelia.

I know an Irish fellow who can sell you a box for that bar.

Pantyfanatic.

We've got to have that drink sometime.

SFC.

Come sit on my milkcrate and we'll share a bottle of Chateau

la Face '69 if you have any left.

MonStar.

Relax, it doesn't all have to happen this week. Take joy from

what you do and revel in how wonderful sharing with a loved

one can be. Maybe wildly revel, but revel.

Diva, I got a splinter from the milkcrate!!

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LMFAO!!!!!!!

Oldfart...you are quite the man!!!

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"Never shall I forget the time I spent with you. Please
continue to be my friend, as you will always find me yours."
Ludwig van Beethoven (1770-1827)

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."

Oldfart...

I am already equiped with a "box"



Ophelia

OldFart:

I'd love to share that drink, but no way am I going to sit on that milkcrate of yours if I'm going to get a splinter in my posterior! I think perhaps I'll sit on your lap instead, if that's alright by you?

And Monstar: OldFart has put it beautifully.

And Ophelia and PantyFanatic have just given you the perfect analogies to keep in mind: as long as you remember that sex is like silly putty, not paycheques, you'll do fine. (You may confuse other people if you put it that way, but heck, it's fun to mix things up a little! )

--- sweetstuff

For the smiles SFC! Between you and Diva, I'll be giggling all day!

Ophelia

Ophelia

I've just written in another thread about boxes and bars,

but milkcrates are different again.

SFC

That knee is there anytime you want to drop by and share

that bottle.

and Diva

Just me!

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Oldfart---If your milkcrates were reinforced plastic;like mine;you
wouldn't get splinters!
I don't sell things.I freely give them away. Irish
P.S.You have seen the popularity of plastic vibrators but people
don't use wooden ones;because they splinter!

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(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)

We have Nurse Diva right here, who attends to the welfare of all family members. I wouldn’t mind seeing her leave me long enough to do a good TURN with you. I’m confident OldFart would be willing to HANDLE that.

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pantyfanatic--If Nurse Diva is going to provide aid;I think that I will get a splinter in a different spot! Irish
P.S.The sacrifices that I make!

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(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)

This would be a true INSPIRATION for most everyone. We already have Nurse Diva cuming to help ALL of us enjoy the day.

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