what is your definition of cheating?? If your S/O knows and aproves of a sexual encounter, is that cheating?? So many questions and no answers.

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If you're talking sex with someone else....I don't think cheating is your biggest problem. If you know what I mean.

RandyGal and Lil...how does it feel to have sloppy seconds ????

I had "The Good Doctor" last year!!!!!

LMAO!
But let me tell you...he is one hell of a OBGYN!!!!!!!!!!!:gld:

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Yes, but Diva.....did he wear his sexy "uniform" when he was with YOU???

I mean really, it's part of his allure quite frankly, don't you think?

Those stripes.

Those boots.

That helmet!

*whew* is it getting warm in here or is it just me?

What a hottie.....and he KNOWS he's a hottie too. Just look at that body language. It SCREAMS "I AM MAN-MEAT!!!"

I know you're jealous. Don't be. There'll be someone out there just like him for you Diva and Lilith.

Not only did he wear it Ms. RandyGal, "Doc, let me take it off with my teeth as he stripped for me!!!!

I think you are just making up a whole bunch of silly excuses RG because you are upset that I got to him first!!

I am the Goddess ya know!!! ROTFLMFAO!!!!

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"Never shall I forget the time I spent with you. Please
continue to be my friend, as you will always find me yours."
Ludwig van Beethoven (1770-1827)

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."

Well..................

I suppose there IS enough of him to go around.

I feel sooooooooooooo used though! You'd THINK he would have mentioned his other conquests.

p.s. you can't see it in the photo but he's also wearing a wonderful tablecloth...er......cape around his neck. what a DUDE!!! LOL LOL LOL

Ohhh I don't want him anymore RandyGal...you can keep him!!!

He couldn't keep up to me sexually!

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"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."

Damn it!!!!! I am guilty for God's sake stop rubbing it in!!!!!!!!

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scarecrow........Scenario: You are sitting at your puter and cybering with another. Your S/O comes into the room.....You.....

1~ Shut down the screen and say....."Hello honey, what's up"?, while hiding your obvious sexual arousal.

2~ Tell the person your are cybering with that your S/O has just entered the room and we can now have a threesome. Your S/O says "It's ok honey, I was just going to the store and I wanted to let you know. I'll be back soon, have fun"!

3~ Your S/O enters the room and hits you over the head with a cast iron frying pan, knocking you out cold!

LOL!!!!!...Does this clarify anything?

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Prettyviolet, I agree with you. It feels good to have someone be able to get me hard or for me to make them wet or more.

It would be close to senario #2, she's not into puter chat. If S/O knows and does not mind I don't see how it can be cheating.

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I've been trying to ignore this thread but I just can't anymore.

This is my PERSONAL OPINION on the subject:

1. If you cyber and you also have a S/O apparently you aren't
getting what you need/want either sexually or emotionally or
both from your S/O.

2. If you aren't getting what you need from your S/O, and have
discussed these needs with said S/O, and your S/O either won't
or can't meet these needs I believe you are justified in getting
these needs met another way.

3. Cyber-sex is certainly safer than "real" sex with a partner who
may have and can infect you with an STD, it also cannot cause
pregnancy.


4. Masturbating by yourself or with the above mentioned
accompaniments (sp?) is not cheating. You haven't had physical
sexual contact with another person.

5. Cyber-sex is not much different than masturbating while
watching a porn movie or looking at sexual pictures or while
reading erotic stories.

6 If masturbating is not cheating and cyber-sex is not much
different, then cyber-sex is not cheating either.

7. If YOU think it's cheating.......
DON'T DO IT!!!!!!

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scarecrow.........Now you have an answer....It's that simple hun!

Sugarsprinkles......I am of the opinion that if you cyber and you have a S/O.......it doesn't NECESSARILY mean you aren't getting what you need/want sexually or emotionally.......maybe you are just into "VARIETY".....and can take this variety to your personal relationship at another time. I don't want anyone to think that I think cybering is wrong! I think it can add to your relationship if you include your S/O and tell him/her what you have learned or want to try as a result.

Also......(trying not to be a stickler here).......Masterbating, looking at a magazine and pondering, watching a porn film, etc., are all NON-cheating activities as they DO NOT include another person in a conversation of desires and wants and "what I could do to you if I were with you at this moment"!

When you are in a "cybering conversation" you and another "REAL" person are trading thoughts as to what you are doing to one another at that very moment. If your S/O knows and approves of it....it CANNOT be construed as cheating........But if your S/O has no knowledge of "it" and you perpetually hide the fact as they enter the room or you sneak away to be alone to do "it", and you never initiate "it" into your relationship.....then I have to say you are indeed cheating! Even though you haven't had "Physical Sexual Contact", you have had "Sexual Contact" with another person, live and in real time, and so therefore you are decieving your S/O if they have no knowledge of this activity! Decieving sexual behavior is in definition....cheating!

I am not trying to start an argument here.......I just want the masses to understand that there is an answer to this...... But you have to look inside yourself for that answer. And as Sugarsprinkles said in #7....If you think it's cheating.....don't do it!!!!!

I want to add..........If you have to ask.......then you probably already know the answer!

Mrs. Lix

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I have to agree with lix.......if you need to ask then you know the answer.....it all comes down to what you feel is right or wrong......for me....i am a very open person and if my mate wants to cyber or look at pics or have phone sex.....then i have no problem with it....as long as he is honest with me about it...however what's good for the goose is good for the gander....that's what i think most ppl forget......so i say before you do have cyber it might be a good idea to stop and ask yourself how you would feel if it was your partner doing it!!!! then make your choice

But hey its just my Opinion

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Yea............What 1wildpussycat said.........Damn hun....I should have summed it up so good.....but NOOOOOOO.....I just had to go on and on and on!!!!.....LOL!!!!

Mrs. Lix

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